mandag den 17. oktober 2011

Just got back!

I just got back from the interview at Penny Lane and I must say I was pleasantly surprised when I saw that it was a young woman who was the Master Baker in the shop. She's only 27 and besides being the Master Baker, she is also the shops only Pastry apprentice. The interview itself only took like 30 minutes, and it went very well, or so I believe it did, and I will get a phone call either today or tomorrow., where she will tell me when I'll be able to start and inform me about the minor details about how my time as an intern will be and w
hat I'll be doing, who I'll be helping and so on. The owner of the place was supposed to meet me just to get a quick look at who I was and what sort of person I was. I can't wait for her to call back and I am sitting here RIGHT NOW, jumping in my seat just waiting for the phone to ring, hahaha :)

Also the whole transportation problem has finally been solved. I get to burrow my aunties bike and my mother will buy me a helmet (safety first!) and I'll be able to burrow the bike until I get one of my own. If I get told I can start tomorrow already, I'll have
to call my mom and ask her to bring the bike out today, instead of Sunday as it was originally planned.

Oh yeah. I decided to make some last changes to my Halloween costume and I won't be going as the first doll concept I originally had planned, but I'll try and make the same Halloween costume (and make up) as I did last year. It took some time to make and it was a BITCH to get off the face again, hahah. The liquid eyeliner I used almost act like glue on the face and is actually pretty hard to get off again. It doesn't stain the skin or anything; it's just very waterproof i guess XD

Oh on a last note. Jobteam... why do I have to continue Jobt
eam when I have an internship? And not only that, they really do EVERYTHING to make sure that Jobteam is boring, and you want to do something else than sending god damn applications every day. They don't have flash installed on any of the computers! Laptops’ and stationeries’. So you can't watch anything on Youtube, you can't play games in Facebook and you CAN'T listen to any music! I didn't bring my own PC today, since I found it stupid to carry a laptop around while having a job interview, so it stayed home today, and by the Gods do I regret it!


And now for a picture. Just to show that Autmn doesn't have to be boring, cold, rainy and gloomy. Just look at the colors! I don't care if this is shopped or not, I LOVE the colors <3

lørdag den 15. oktober 2011

Minor update, just because I can.

I can't belive that I have a minor interview with Penny Lane on Monday where they have to find out what kind of person I am, befor they decide If they wan't to have me as an apprentice or not. I am VERY nervouse and not really sure of what I should take with me. I will, of course, take my application with me and my Portfolio but I am not sure what else I might need. I don't have any references or anything like that. Nut I REALLY hope they choose me. I've been busting my ass off for almost a year now in my quest to gain me an internship :C
So If I get it I'll be so happy that I could just scream! I've been wanting an apprentienchip at Penny Lane ever since I decided to become a pastry chef, simply becayse they making eveything from the bottom and with good quality ingredients.

Also I had to say goodbye to an RPG session I played every other satureday with my BF and some of our friends. It was Warhammer fanatsy and I have grown so found of that system, and I really like the dark, grim and gritty world it takes place in. I am sort of happy that the session has come to an end, since it has been going for some time now, over a year, and out characters were pretty highlevel, so it got harder and harder for our GM to keep throwing challenges after us. It was a great run, and I am happy to have spend many hours every other Satureday, playing with my friends :D

onsdag den 12. oktober 2011

SO much stuff to look forward to!

Hi all, so a very sweet friend of mine asked me to start updating my blog more and I will try my very best to do so. I will update with the Lolita Shout Out as usual but I will also try to write a little abut me and my life in here, so you guys can sort of get a better understading of who I am as a person.

first off let my link you to the Danish Lolita Magazine "Starlight Magazine"
I know it's in Danish but don't think about that, dudes and dudettes, look at the photoshoots man! They are so awesome and beautiful <3
All and of the girls shown in the different shoots are so talented. Hope you'll take a look at it and please do post a comment on my blogging telling what you think about it :D

Okay so what should I talk about this time? hmmm. I can't really think of anything special at the moment. OH I'm going to a Halloween party the 22nd this month and I'll be gone for the whole weekend. Normally we don't celebrate Halloween in Denmark, we do have a day which reminds of Halloween called All Hallows Eve but instead of pumpkins, to make Jack 'o' Laterns, we used beets to create the same concept as the pumpkin lanters, to scare away evil ghouls. But no one ever celebrate it in these modern times.
But since the American ways are starting to grown more and more into the Danish habits we have started celebrating Halloween and Valentines day.
I love Halloween and I loved it even befor it became populair amongst the rest of the Danish people. So I can't wait to go to the party, I'll be dressed up as a creepy doll, which is very easy when you have a lolita closet, hahahahaha.

Also I am thinking of ordering the Vampire Requiem Long JSK since I LOVE that dress and I was thinking of trying to get a complete set with it, bag, headress and shoes, I don't have any trouble finding the bag and the headpiece, but the shoes is a different matter. I don't wan't to spend a whole lot of cash on brand shoes, since I'll be scared of ending up with a pair of shoes that cost me a fortune but only kept for one week or so, so I am trying to find a cheaper blolita shoe in Navy as well, and is that hard to come by? Yes it is!
I've looked at several cheap lolita websites, Bodyline, Taobao, Qutieland, nothing! They all come in this cute baby blue or sky blue color so I just have to keep in searching .____ .

Oh and a small random thing I've fallen in love with: Peach tea, wow how did I not taste this any sooner? I friggin love Peach tea. When It's vinter I normally drink alot of tea, with sweetener no sugar, because I don't wan't the extra calories since I've started on a change of habits after I disvored I as more prone to get clots in the legs, due to a gene which both my mom, me, granmother and sister has so I had to talk to dietician to put together a meal plan, and to show every secound week to get weighed. I've forced myself to drink more water (Rather than juice, soda pop and kool-aid), eat several times a day (alot of veggies and fruites) and exercise more and on that noet I've lost 7 kilos already, so I am well on may way to reach my goal of 65 kg, which is the normal weight I should have. I am so happy that I've finally gotten to finally start loosing weight and become a lot more healthier :D

Okay I don't have more to talk about, for now so I'll just sign off.
I haven't checked for miss spelled words, but I still hope you guys know what I wanted to tell you, haha :)

fredag den 7. oktober 2011

Lolita Shout Out #25 and Steve Jobs

Victorian Maiden has a new dress out Henrietta Blouse dress which, for me, is a dress with a lot of combination opportunities. and also, again, I love the V.M colorscheme for being earthy and feminine. Also the dress can either stayed closed of you can unbuttom the lover buttoms and end up with a whole new dress so all in all a very versitil dress.

Metamorphose has a new series on the line soon called the Maguerite Wreath Series containing three dresses (one OP and two JSK) one skirt, one pair of socks, a bonnet a headbow and ribbon hair combs. The print choise is rather odd compared to what season we are currently in and I see it more as a sort of summery print rather than Autum/Winter. I would actually have thought that Meta would have come out with prints and designs maching the season.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright has a new JSK for sale right now called Veronica Ellise which comes in an unsual color I haven't seen befor in Lolita, emerald green. It's not an ugly color at all and it works really well with the dress, but the dress itself seems... boring and all the bows is a tad to much for me. The only color that seems to pull of
f all those bows is the black version of it, but remove the bows and you have a pretty decent dress.

Alice and the Pirates has this wonderful new pochette out called very simply the AP Coffin Porchette. I adore the design and I will love to have it in my closet. yes I am a sucker for the gohitc feel to lolita, but without it being OTT gothic.

Innocent World has a couple of things within the Delf Lotta series and one of them is this skirt. I don't really like the skirt and I guess it's because it seems really short on the picture, compared to what you normally see as satdart forthe leng
th of a dress and/or skirt. And also I know that I.W makes some very plaine and down to eart designs, but this design is so simple that it actually seems boring and meh like.


As a lot of you may know Steve Jobs recently died after a long term illness due to Pancreatic Cancer and it was a huge loss for a lot of people around the world. I don't give a hoot about Apple myself since I find most Apple Products to be mere brandwhoring and therefor don't care about it. But I will however say that it sadens me to know that Mr. Jobs has died. He was the founder of somthing I hold dear in my heart, Pixar Studios, and I amd indeed sad that such a great visionary, inventor and business genius has died. I will however say that I am more that happy that he died with his family and loved ones around him.
A thing I an greatly impressed about with Jobs is that he KNEW that it was his time, so he stepped back as the leader of Apple and gave the position of CEO to someone else befor he died, so that people didn't have to deal worth it later on after his death. The world has lost a great man, dad and husband but his legeacy will live on.

R.I.P Steve Jobs.


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torsdag den 22. september 2011

Lolita Shout Out #24

Innocent World
has alot of stuff goin on right now, and even more on the reserve list. I won't be listing any of the items today, since there's SO many to show you. So instead I will put the link HERE so you can go watch yourself. I will, however, say that they have som really lovely autumn pieces for sale.

Angelic Pretty has a new print out called Petit Patissiere Menu.
Very adorable and I like this way better than their wonder cookie series.

Alice and the Pirates has a few new items. but the JSK caught my eye the moment I wen't into the online shop.

Qutieland (Although not a brand) is selling a few replicas like Vampire Requiem and Chained Berry Memoir. Iknow this will cause a huge scream from some lolitas, who thinks this is a horrible thing to do, and then there's a lolita like me, who doesn't really mind it. I think it's a good way for us, who can't fit these sizes to be able to have these lovely prints outself.

Bodyline is selling a new dress which sort of reminds me of the Holy Night Story JSK.

I wan't to look like this for winter, haha caroling lolita <3

onsdag den 14. september 2011

♠ Just a small update ♠

Hi guys!
So alot of stuff has happende over these last few month!
I've gotten 33 followers here on my blog, WOW! Thanks for following me guys, it means a so much for me to know some of you actually like my blog.

I've finally finally FINALLY gotten my internship as a baking student and even at the place where I wanted to be the most, Penny Lane! I got the phone call from the owner Monday last week and she asked me when I could start. I was so thrilled and said that I could, of course, start RIGHT away if they needed me. We talked a little and she said she would call me back later. I waited up til Tuursday to call her back but she wasn't present at the moment, so I had one of her co-workes write a small message from me. She didn't call back again and I was starting to get nervouse... wasn't I good enough? Did she just dump me and didn't borthered calling back? or was she prehaps to bussy?

I wated for some time and finally took a small talk with my job cunsultant about my situation. He told me he would call her, because he knew her very well, and I just waited for him to told me what he had found out. It turned out that the reason to why she didn't call me back was becasue she was bussy trying to find a new Chef baker, becasue the old one had stopped and was going to start as a baking teacher ad food college. But I finally got my date for when I can start down there and I was even told that there MIGHT be an apprenticeship in there for me as well!

But I don't have any way to get down there for now... My bike has either been stolen or thrown out since it was an old rusty and flat bike, haha. So now I have to buy a new one.
Me and Mr. Wonderful anniversary on the 10th of September!
We have been together for 7 years now and I can't imagin a life without him. He means more to me that anything else in this world. I gave him two PDF files with some RP books, which he wanted to badly, and he gave me 4 Disney Movies because I love them and I'm trying to start a Disney collection.

Other than that I've been to the Dragons RP con where I had to pose as a player and a GM for some young boys. I normally write scenarios which are level 2 (the levels indicate how tought or easy a scenario is. It's so that unexperienced players don't end up choosing a super hard scenario) and the kids normally have a great time playing on the, but this time the former Chairman of the RP club asked me to make some level 3 or 4 scenarios for the next con.
It's a HUGE honor for me to know that the experienced players what to try out my scenarios but I am so afraid that they will find the bland and boring. So for now I would much rather play on them, to get to know how they work and later on host my own.

So... this was just a minor update from me to tell you guys what's going on in my life.
Love you and take care!

fredag den 9. september 2011

Lolita Shout Out #23

Summer is slowely heading towards and end and winter and autumn is up next, with it's beautiful colors, cold weather and beautiful snow, a lolita must dress to match the cold months of the year.

Innocent World is now selling some really great new jackets and coats for lolitas and there is actually a jacket which can even fit a girl who doesn't have super thin waist. The jacket is called Night Bear Coat and can even be purchased in a large version which fits waist 91 cm, which makes it ideal for a lolita to wear a little thicker and wamer clothes.

Angelic Pretty has released it's cute new Wonder Story series with two kinds of jsk.

Baby the stars shine bright has nothing new on the wall besides some awesome new autumn boots which you can get i brown, red, black and even golden.

Metmorphose is also planning og releasing some awesome new coats for the upcomming winter season. 4 coats, a jacket and a hood cap will be released sooner and I can't wait to see the colors it will come in.

Vistorian maiden has a new dress and a matching jacket for it. The dress is not really my taste and the jacket could be okay without the tuds on it, but all in all it comes in some wonderful light colors.

torsdag den 25. august 2011

Lolita Shout out #22

Wow. As I said before the reason to why I choose to make these updates every other thrusday is simply because I haven't seen that much from the brnad sites. They haven't really been up to somthign lately, thus making it hard to update this site with new and exciting fashion updates.
So I decided to wait for one more week to see if just a few ripples would appear in the surface, and it did :D

Innocent World has this lovely new JSK with roseprint on it called Theresia Rose Jumperskirt. It comes Bordeaux, Chocolate and Blue. Not much to say about the dress other than it looks like every other I.W dresses.

Baby and AATP doesn't really ahve anything new on their program at the moment. Althoug they do have this cute Doll jsk called Flying Love From Juliet. I like the babydoll cut alot, but frankly I can't really wear it because I would look pregnant in it, haha :)

Metamorphose will be releasing a new dress in November based on the anime Hakuoki. I don't really like the dress and I find it really ugly to say it the least. It reminds me sort of somthing my granny would have found nice as a young woman.

Victorian Maiden has this dress for sale on their website and man do I love it! I wan't it so bad but can't fit it, oh the sorrow! The dress itself is called Jewel Ribbon Puff-sleeved set and comes it to varieties, JSK and OP and both comes in that wonderfull sort of dusty peachy color.


torsdag den 4. august 2011

Lolita Shout out #21

Okay guys. I guess I'll be going like this, I'll be updating L.S.O every secound Thursday simply becasue there haven't really been much to talk about, and it seems like there arn't many updates when it comes to the lolita fashion. But i belive that every other week might end up with more to talk about rather than every week.

Innocent World is actually selline alot of stuff right now in form of some few skirts, two dresses and shirts right now, and I want to show you the Acenthus Jsk and the Square Yoke A-line OP which are to lovely dresses. The jsk is very mature and is just a classic look for I.W with the simple OP design and their logo used in the brodery/print design. It's a lovely dress but not really anything speciel. It's design is simple and elegant like you see in most classic lolita dresses and to be frank, maybe a bit bland. The Jsk in the other hand is very cute in the form of that it reminds me of a little girls dress, but without it being sort of too childish, it still keeps the adult apperance to it and the colors also helps it staying more on the adult side rather than the child side. I like the loose A line dresses that, when seen in front, lookes like a loose dress but when you see it from the back you suddenly see the ribbons that can be tied into a bow, and suddenly the dress looks like an average lolita A line dress. Also the have a resevation up for some really great items. The Sailor Collar A-line OP caught my eye and I just adore it so much! In it's black version it reminds me of the classical anime interpretation of a lolita, I don't mean this in a bad way at all, but the dress looks amazing in all the colors you can choose from and again it's a loose A line.

Baby the Stars Shine Bright is out with a new set with a dress and a headbow. It's just a standart lolita look in either black or pink with the old School feel to it when you see it in black. The dress is tied behind the neck which sort of makes it great for summer,since you can wear the dress without anything under it and if it gets a little cold, you can always pull a cute bolero over your shoulders.

Alice and the Pirates also have a new dress on the line. The Operalia Bouquet Jsk in some wonderfull summer colors. And again I fell for the IvoryxBlack version of AATP's dress and I tend to do that but again the BlackxIvory versions of alot of their dresses is really beautiful. The dress have the classic AATP elements on it and I do like that it's still manages to keep a very adult and summery look to it. The print used for the JSK is amazing and I guess that is why I love their dresses. I have a flair for the more antique/mature prints and especially when ir comes to flora prints.

Angelic Pretty also has a new sweet print JSK and OP called Wonder Story Series and it is, as you can imagine, inspired by Alice in Wonderland. But then again Alice in Wonderland is a huge Linkinspirational source for lolitas all over the world, and their isn't a brand yet (of what I know) who hasn't been using Alice sooner or later in their prints. I don't really have much to say as I am not strong on the sweet lolita site, but the print is adorable.

Metmorphose has an amazing new print on the line which I would love to hav a skirt in and I hope I will! It's called the Night of Masquerade series. I especially love the short sleeved dress in navy. The dress is beautiful and it has an amazing design and not only that, the print and the color is just amazing as well. If I could fit it I would buy it along with the socks and the bonnet. I can't wait to see people post outfit wearing this print.

tirsdag den 2. august 2011

Vacation is over :C

I'm finally back from my 3 weeks summer vacation and I am still tired but this was greatly needed. I've been craving sleep for so long that I always ended up sleeping on the sofa when I got home every day at 15:00 because I was so tired.
But these last two weeks has been amazing!
During the first week my Hubby's childhood friend came and stayed at out place for about a weeks time, after he had just got home from a familiy vacation in Portugal, sp he was pretty jetlagged when he got here, haha, since he fell alseep on the sofa whilst watching Whose Line Is It Anyway? with me and Mr. Wonderful.

It was a great week where we had some time to show Mikkel (Mr. Wonderful's best friend) around in our little city, we even went to a place called "Universitariummet" which is sort of a small "trial "exhibition where kids could come in and learn all sorts of things. how does the human balance work, how can a ship saile on the water, what is gravity you know that sort of thing. I choose to call it a "Trial" exhibition since it's part of a showcase for what could be build and a newly cleared piece of land in our city, where our VERY small amusement park used to be. People have been thinking on what to place there and this "Universitarium" is one of the proposals from the university students here in Aalborg.

We later went on to showing him the "castle" in the middle of the city and the monastry which is build to keep sound out. You can walk straight from the chaotic city life into the monastry and all sound is silenced. It wass build as a sanctuary for sick and homeless children where they could learn latin, so if you go intothe "Schoolyeard" and look at the monastry walls you can actually see some latin words and names from back then.
We went home again and pretty much used most of the time gaming on the PSII, PSIII, Computer and Xbox 360 yes we are nerds into the bone hahahah!

He wen't home after a weeks time and me and Mr. Wonderful was left to ourselves and just spend the time enjoying each others company and just finally ahve some time to cuddle up (who doesn't love a good cuddle whilst snuggling with the man you love?) Wednesday we went to a town called Hals in Denmark with Mr. Wonderful and his mom where we ate at a Pancake house Called Rasmus Klumps Pandekagehus. Yes you heard correctly they only serve pancakes with all kinds of filling! You can choose from breakfast, Lunch, Dinner and Dessert pancakes and I will say that the Dinner/Lunch pancakes are HUUUGE! Befor you start wonderring who Rasmus is, he is a danish childrensbook character and he is a cute little bear who wears a blue beanie and red overalls with white polkadots and after we have eaten our lunch we just went on walking on the docks and around the town jutch watching people during whatever they now did, eat, talk, walk their dogs, enjoying the sun and so on. We decided to get an icecream and of course it had to be a good ol' Danish icecream, yum yum yum!! :D

Danish Icecream:
3 scoops of Icecream.
"Guf" gooy and sticky meringue with strawberry flavor.
Strawberry jam.
and a "flødebolle" dollop of italian meringue on a lit
tle round wafer covered in dark chocolate.

After that we went home and I spend most of my time with Mr. Wonderful befor I had to go back to jobteam again, started yesterday and let's just say that I don't really want to be here. We did, however, get send home yesterday, because an internet cable was tourn during a renovation somewhere in Aalborg, which ment that our net out here didn't work, and we have to use the net to find jobs and so on, so we were sent home early, YEAH!!!
Rasmus Klump^
Isn't he adorable

onsdag den 27. juli 2011

I hate myself sometimes.
Not as in I think I am fat and ugly, not at all. But because it's so easy to worry me, and I'm easy to scare and I guess oit comes with me knowing I am a person who can not do much about anything really... and I hate it I donøt know how many times I have worried myself so much I've ended up with an upset stomach instead and an angsty feeling and I hate it big time. Not only am I easy to scare I worry about stuff for a LONG time... I heard in the news for a long time now that a meteor MAY (just MAY) hit earth in 2012 and I got so scared. Would we all be killed? WIll it hurt? What about myt parents and my siblings... my friends? all those thoughts when trough my head and I kept them there for several mounths and I couldn't sleep...

I was actually scared of sleeping because to me it seems like eveything bad comes to live during night time and when it was sunny and nice during mornings, I wasn't scared at all... just at night. I ended up talkignt omy BF alot of times about this subject and I was so amazed over how calm he was and all "But sweetie... We can catually change the course of teh meteor, and not only that, NASA will know anout the meteor several YEARS in adavance so they can prepare so don't be scared" to me it was a mild conviction to my fear and I was calm for a few days and then the fear started gaining in on me again and I had to talk to him again.

It wen't on like that for some months and I wouldn't dare look out a window during night time because what IF i say something weird? Like an U.F.O or a weird light I couldn't explaine? and I would just end up becomming more scared than befor and it wasn't until we saw a news program in TV with a dude who knew about meteors that I finally killed my fear, it was nice to hear about all this from a guy who knew about all this and he said that it wouldn't hit becasue we had all the chances to change it's course, just like my BF had said and I could finally sleep again.

Yes I am a real scardycat and a worryvort and I don't like being since it removes my focus on what's going on NOW and not what will be. If I keep fearing fro everything about my life and my health I will never really live my life and I will just end up one day wondering "where did my life go?" The sad thing about all this is that all the talk about, meteors, volcanos and other things hitting the earth in 2012 mademe worry again. I KNOW all of this won't happy JUST because it's suddenly 2012 and the world is suppose to end then, but I can't help but being annoyed that some way the medias got to me with their "OH NO WE ARE GOING TO DIE! BUY OUR NEWSPAPER TO KNOW MORE " news and I and agry with that... I hope I will find a way for me to handle my constant fear of dying or anything like that because this is just... fustrating.

Is there something you are scared of? A Phobia maybe?
WHat do you do to handle it?

lørdag den 23. juli 2011

Even the Gods battle against stupidty.

To all those who have lost family and friends durings the terror event in Norway, i send you my best wishes and my thoughts, I know It won't help the least bit but I can't do more than this. I'm angry and sad over this horrible turn of event and I can't tell you how much I wish the guy who did it truely feel sorry for his act of stupidity.
For Norway and for those who was so brutaly murdered.

torsdag den 30. juni 2011

Lolita shout out #20

So what am I going to talk about today?
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Innocent world is having a sale on selected item and they have a couple of new stuff up for reservtions and thqat was when My eye caught the Michelle Bustier and Short. It's suppose to give a girl sort of a Ouji fell but when I look at it it reminds me of cigarette girl. You know those old fashion girls with a strap tray around their neck, filled with cigarettes and cigars who sold them to people during shows or in show rooms. I guess it's the mix og the little barette like hat, the color and the overall design of the bustier.

Angelic Pretty are releasing some very adorable stuff! It contains both umbrellas, purses bags and other stuf that is truely ment for a sweet lolita. Now, normally I don't cake much for sweet lolita, I don't hate it I just don't really care for it but still I sort of fell in love with several of their accessorie. I guees it's the bitter-sweet variety i love, the black with the sweet mixed together in Linkwhat would make a lovely piece of filled chocolate, bitter yet sweet.

Alice and the Pirates has finally released their "Night Fairy Fantasia" print. As some of you may know this print is heavily inspired from the story about a boy who didn't want to grow up, that's right! Peter Pan. The print is amazing and I love the color spec in which you can choose you dress from. Their JSK I, for this print, is after my opinion not the best design I've seen from AATP since it looks sort of cheap and the design in itself is weird. The JSK II on the other hand is really beautiful and you can even get matching socks.

torsdag den 23. juni 2011

Lolita Shout Out #19

You can really feel that summer ins in the air now. Alot of the lolita brands as we know are starting to put out alot of floral prints, summer cuts in their clothig and sailor themed dresses.

Victorian maiden has two new dresses on the line right now that can both be used as a classic dress, and as cute sailor dresses. The classical marine puff-sleeve dress and classic marine tuck dress are both dresses that can be used fore MORE than just sailor. Bot have the trade of looking like any other sailor lolita dress, but if you coordinate them with the rigth type of accesories the you'll be able to really create many different types of outfits.

Bodyline is usually sort of a 50/50 chance to buy from. You never know if you'll get a really good looking piece of clothing with a fairly decent choise of fabric, or somthing that is horribly made and with fabrics that is mostly Ita lolta worthy. But you can at times be really lucky and prehaps get a dress like this one. The dress itself is really cute and I like that you are able to get it in a rather broad color selection. I will, however, say that the lacing in front looks weird. It almost looks like it has sort of a small bolero over it. Im not the least bit in doubt with that is you buy the dress and ad or remove some detailes from it you could actually end up with a decent sweet or gothic dress.

Alice and the Pirates have some really neta stuff on the website this time, or for me the always do haha. This time I will focus one a pair of shoes they are selling, the Sylphide shoes which Linkcomes in black, red, white brown and blue. I have a love for AATP's shoes since they are so Linkdiffenrent in the good kind of way than most lolita stores. I love how they are somewhat cure yet very grownup and regal.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright have this very different new dress called Ma Cherie jumper skirt which, compared to may other things seen at baby is in my eyes.... very simple. Almost too simple for baby's and by that I don't mean it's horrible og not worth the brand name (since brand it's norhing more than a name) but just that it seems weird to see a dress this simple comming from Baby.

mandag den 20. juni 2011

Original Vs Replica

Isn't it funny how you sometimes as a kid felt REALLY special if you got a new toy, clothing or bike that nobody else had, and suddenly everyone were gathered around you in a circle in admiration, awe and at some point jealousy. Yes, we have all experienced that feeling and it was a pretty darn good feeling as a kid. But when you are a kid you don't really have focus on anyone other than yourself and I find it sad that this feeling seems to apply to some lolitas. I must admit I felt angry and disgusted over some lolitas who only buy certain rare prints just to be unique, special, one of a kind and the centre of everyone’s jealousy.

What I am talking about is how some lolita feel but-hurt over that their special rare print suddenly isn't special anymore, because someone casual "dared" to make a replica of a brand print. I'm talking about a link to a thread on EGL where one was thinking of making a Vampire Requiem replica and some of the girls couldn't stand the thought of it. Not because it would take money from the brand companies (yeah as IF) but because their special super-awesome-rare print would lose its WOW effect in the rest of the community. Maybe it's just me but I find that VERY childish and egocentric to actually have such a thought.

The dress is not suppose to be your ego boost that feast upon others admiration and frankly the dress is NOT suppose to be a way for you to crawl up the invisible lolita hierarchy. The dress is supposed to be special to you and if it loses its special something because a replica is made, then I honestly don't think you deserve it. The dress is suppose to be something YOU like, a dress you think is special not giving a hoot of what other people think. Aren’t we suppose to choose the lolita clothing we like based on the fact that we like the print and design above the possible credit we get for its rareness?

Also, why is it okay for some GL's that DOM makes sweet prints but as soon as they turn their gaze upon a Gothic print the GL's suddenly starts screaming in terror of the possible replicas of their favourite genre? Come on girls! Get into the wonderful world of lolita and be a little more open-minded when it comes to replicas. For some of us, like me, a replica is a wonderful way to gain a print I love and a dress i can fit, and not just sit in front of my computer screen, sighing because I can’t fit the brand. Give it a chance and live with it, for some of us this MIGHT be the only way we'll ever be able to fit into some dresses and on a last note...
Shouldn't it be the design and not the name that mattered?
What's your view on Replicas vs. Original?

torsdag den 16. juni 2011

Lolita Shout out #18

Hi guys, wow as you can see I've been bussy trying to complete my "30 days of Lolita" which I did! WOO and I feel it like some sort of an acomplishmen. Also alot of stuff has happened in my life last month. I've moved from Gardening Service to Jobteam, which is a team that is going to give my some "tools" to be able to hopefully find an internship. I've finally pulled myself together and been to the doctor to get some blod samples taken and some cell tissue. It's a offer that "Kræftens Bekæmpelse" (an orginazation that tries to focus on collecting money for battle against cacer and sharing information about it) where you as a youn woman can come in an get a free chance to see if you got cervical. They take a small cel sample from you uterus and see if there's any change i the cells. Itøs really nice they offer it to youn women so that if there IS some changes they can start treatment, og keep an eye out for it, at a early stage. I was also suppose to get some blood samples taken, and let me just say that I have a terrible fear of needles. Not the whole idea of getting medici shot into y body or blood taken from it, but the whole thought of the needel inside my arm just freaks me out. And I've been afraid of needles ever since I was very small which is werid cindering I've been to hospitals and doctors almost every damn week. I've always been a very weak kid, not in the pshycological sense but in the physical sense. I am from natures side born with an incomplete immunesystem which makes me prone to getting sick faster and I have a harder time getting over it again. But being used to getting samples from every time I was at the doctors place just have done annything for my fear agains needles, it stills thrives this day... But today was a HUGE personal conquest for me. For the first time in 24 years I wasn't afraid of getting pricked by a needle. It was a lot less painful as I remember it and I didn't eve contord once. Some of you may think that this is just me being a whiny little girl, but for m this was truely somthing big. But I'm done with the test and the answers will soon be send to me so I can see what they said. The blood samples was to see if I had less D-vitamin in my blood, to see if I were more prone to get thrombosis and to see if I had some Cholesterol in my blood. And to those of you who remeber me talking about my mom, she is felling way better now that ever. It seems like this operation actually helped her but she is still a little sceptical about the whole ordeal. I just hope that everything will turn out better this time. And today I will be updatig L.S.O, the reason to why I haven't be doing it lately is mostley because of the challenge, but also because I haven't really been able to find anything new in the lolita fashion world. But do not frown little ones, for I have found some nice new stuff for you all!

Metamorphose has released a new cute print! Yes I know this is sort of old news, but I still felt like sharring this with you. It's called fairy Tale Series. I've grown a certain fancy to the Fairy LinkLinkTale Lace-up pinafore dress and actually both in balck AND white. The collection comes in three colors only. Lavender, off-white and black and the Lavender is sort of a darker lavender that what I usually see in lolita fashion.

Baby The Star Shine Bright is starting their cute summer collection with a lot of cute and very simple dresses. It's a good design they carry during the summer months since most lolita dresses are way to hot to wear. They seem to make their dresses less "flashy" and with fabrics that are ment to be worn during summer moths, without feeling you are wearing a lacy sauna. Amongst the dresses I would say that the Gingham Rumine JSK is a wonderfull summer dress and it can even be used for coutry lolita as well.

Innocent World hasen't been good at updatig their collection lately, and as I've said befor it's almost like they are in a sort of hiatus periode. They don't produce as much prints or designs as they used to and theyr dresses haven't really had the WOW-factor as their previous collections. I will draw my focus to one dress, the angel tired onpiece. Again this is old news or the dresses just get sold really quick because a lot of the things I see on their website tend to get sold withing a flash. But this dress is rather cute. It's subtle an yet it has a print that isn't overwhealming for the dress in general. The print is nice but prehaps a little boring compared to what we KNOW I.W is able to produce. Also I.W is selling some really great Lucky Packs. I love I.W's lucky packs since you tend to get a lot of stuff for your money. Alone their lucy pack B (which is the cheapest) contains way more than any other brand would fill their cheapest L.P's with. Take a look at them and If any of you order any of the pack please contact me I'm dying to know what they contain.

mandag den 13. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 30 - a photo take of yourself today and 3 good things that's happend over the last 30 days.

I can't post a picture of myself, which Ive told several times now, but I can tell you three good things that have happend ove rthese last 30 days.

1) I was finally able to get enugh cash for both mt new bento stuff AND some storage place for me and my hubby's office room.

2) I've grown a certain detemination that I SHALL go to France with my Hubby and some very dear friends of me, just us in an awesome apartment (prehaps) enjoying the culture, the food and the lolita stores, MWAHAHAH!

3) I will finally move from the gardening service to the jobteam, which is a place where I'll be learning how to write a god job application and hopefully GET me that damn internship, haha :)

søndag den 12. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 29 - A picture of a Lolita you would like to meet for real.

!Her Curiouse Elegance, Raegan!
Picture taken by her farther and borrowed from her blog.

lørdag den 11. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 28 - A picture of the perfect Lolita location.


Picture can be found HERE

fredag den 10. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 27 - One song that fits your favorite lolita style.

Classic Lolita - Pachebel's Canon in D major.
Gothic Lolita - Voltaire's Graveyard Picnic.


torsdag den 9. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 26 - Your facebook profil picture.

Guess where the picture is borrowed from XDD

onsdag den 8. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 25 - Your favorite lolita themed artwork.
I don't really think I have any. I love the artwork that is often seen in A.P website. Yeah I know the girls look sort of retarded or like they have zero idea of where they are, but it's beautiful artwork non the least :)

tirsdag den 7. juni 2011

30 days og Lolita

day 24 - A picture of you from a meet.



from left to right: Me (in my A.P dress), Sabrina, Thea and Mette :DKidly borrowed from Sascha (Zarsu)

mandag den 6. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 23 - a picture fo your handwriting.
Why does everthing have to be pictures with these kinds of "xxx days of somthing?"
I don't have any since I don't go araound taking pictures of my own handwriting since I find it rather ugly :/

søndag den 5. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 22 - A picture of your room.
Again I don't have a camera so I can't take a picture of my room... Plus I don't HAVE a room I actually live in an apartment XD

here's a picture of a dream home of mine.

lørdag den 4. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 21 . your favorti fictional Lolita.
I don't have any.

fredag den 3. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 20 - a picture of a Lolita friend
Dorte (Blue hair) and Astrid (Pink hair)
I consider these two girls my friends and just look at them!
Aren't they amazing lolis :D

Not only are they really good lolis, they are also very modest, kind and not the least bit snobbish ^^


Kindly borrowed from Zarsu.dk

torsdag den 2. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

day 19 - what's in your make-up bag?

Mascara (brown)
Eyeshadow in brown, green and golden colors.
Eyeliner (black)
Browpencil.
Rogue in light pink.
Eyelash curler.
Pencilsharpener.
Foundation.
Concealer.
Make-up brushes.
A little bottle of perfume (Calvin Klein)

onsdag den 1. juni 2011

30 days of Lolita.

Day 18 - A picture of your favorite Lolita style?

Classic Lolita

tirsdag den 31. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 17 - what do you want more then anything right now?
a nice hot and yummy dinner QAQ

mandag den 30. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

Day 16 - your outfit for the day.

I don't have one, since I only wear Lolita during special events such as meet-ups, surtain parties and cons. But here's a picture of my last outfit i wore during our regular Lolita meet-up.

Picture can be found at Zarsu.dk

Outfit rundown:
shirt: Bodyline.
Skirt: home made.
Stockings: off brand.
Headbow: made for me by Zarsu.
Shoes: old Mary Janes found at a local thrift store.
Jewelry: bodyline.
Umbrella: bodyline and borrowed from Zarsu.

søndag den 29. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 15 - Post a picture if your last Lolita purchase
WOW! Uhm. sorry I won't be posting anything because the last time I ordered somthing for my lolita wardrobe was in a grouporder, and I got a lot of stuff.

two shirts.
1 watch in form of a necklace.
1 sun umbrella.
two rings.
1 pair of socks.

lørdag den 28. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 14 - A picture of your dream item

Queens Coach JSK Black and Ivory.

fredag den 27. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 13 - Picture of your favorit sweets.



Assorted chocolates :D~~

torsdag den 26. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 12 - Picture of yourself befor Lolita came into your life.


Hahaha I look horrible XD
I never where a make-up girl plus I'm using self-tanner here X'D
Oh dear me, hahah. I was so thin back then, lol.

onsdag den 25. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

Day 11 - One day in your lolita life in pictures.
Oh gawd. Why is there always a photochallanegen in these kinds of blog entries?
Sorry but I hardly HAVE any pictures of myself in lolita, and the only time I get my pictures taken is when the adorable Zarsu takes pictures of me.
So sorry guys, I don't have a minor photoshoot of a Day in my Lolita life :/

tirsdag den 24. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita.

Day 10 - what's in your bag
Mobilephone, deodorant, roll-on deodorant, a little washing cloth, my purse, astma medicin, pinkillers (in case of headache), freshmints (if breath gets bad), lipgloss (since I often have very and cracked lips) and my buss pass.

mandag den 23. maj 2011

30 days of lolita

Day 9 - 10 things you will never do in Lolita.

1) Have sex in it.

2)
Go to a bacholerette party with it.

3)
Wear it to any family party.

4)
Wear it for a job interview.

5)
Go to a heavy metal concert in it.

6)
Wear those weird bear/bunny hats.

7)
Wear OTT sweet.

8)
Use half bonnets.

9)
wear lolita without my bloomers.

10)
Drink in lolita.

søndag den 22. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

Day 8 - 10 things that inspire you for lolita

1) Marry Me - Emilie Autumn

2)
Shalott - Emilie Autumn

3)
Miss Lucy Had Some Leeches - Emilie Autumn

4)
Carol Of The Bells - Celtic Woman version

5)
Alice of Human Sacrifice - Vocaloid

6)
Walking In The Air - Chloë Agnew

7)
Oh Come All Ye Faithful - Celtic Woman

8)
Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield

9)
Graveyard Picnic - Voltaire

10)
I'm Not Edible - American McGee's Alice

lørdag den 21. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

Day 6 – 10 things you can’t live without in lolita.

1) JSK's

2) Bonnets.

3) Classic prints.

4) Suitcase like bags

5) Cameos

6) Stockings.

7) Mary Janes.

8) Watches.

9) Victorian inspired jewelry.

10) Hats.Link


Day 7 – 10 people who inspire your lolita style.Link

1) Sascha

2) Tenna

3) Astrid

4) Dorte

5) Classic Lolita models.

7) Mana (when I was a teenager, LOOOL)
And I son't have any more than that. Honestly I have NO clue what all the "famous" lolita models are called.

torsdag den 19. maj 2011

Lolita shout out #18

I will start out with Bodyline. ZOMGWTFBBQ! BODYLINE?! But but! That's not even buraduuuuuu. Not it isn't but bodyline will still, in my humble opinion, be a good starter alternative for one who isn't able to pay a fortune for brand clothing used or new. But It seems like some of the new dress at B.L actually look like somthing that would be worth having. B.L has been know to make alot of really cheap stuff and most of it have also shown that they aren't on the high end of the price scale. I don't mean this as BL is a bad thing, but just that if one really want's to buy from them, they should look out for things that don't too ita. Like this dress For a BL dress this is really well made and looks pretty darn good! It often is like this with BL that most of their "own" dresses actually end up being somthing you would want to own. I have a skirt and several shirst from BL myself, so I will recommend taking a look at this dress :D

Angelic Pretty hasn't really been making alot these last couple of weeks, which has supriced me a great deal considered that they had a "print Streak" a couple of weeks ago where they pretty much lunched a new print every week. But now It seems they have gone on a minor hiatus with the print making and instead they have put a little focus on petties and some very cute boleros.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright on the other had did give my a very big surprise by making this dress here. I won't try to wrap this up in cotton and pretend is okay, but this dress horrified me. The dress itself could be cute but for me it's a notorious lace monster and I didn't expect that, considering that Baby usually make pretty decent stuff. Im a little dissapointed over this dress since it seems to be way to cosplayish for me to really like it. Even without the shawel it stills looks to OTT. I'm not waying it looks cheap just that it looks too cosplayish.
30 days of Lolita.

day 4 - 10 items from you wishlist.

1) Queesh Coach Jsk (Black and ivory)

2) Trawberry Jam Highwaist JSK (red)

3) Luna Stripe Halter JSK (Milk tea and chocolate)

4) Clara OP (blue and beige)

5) Chandeliere OP (navy and black)

6) Irongate OP (black and white)

7) Vampire Requiem corset JSK (either in black or red)

8) Treasure Box II.

9) Present Box mini hat (black)

10) Princess Drop Chandelier shoes (black)

onsdag den 18. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 4 - 10 kinds of food you like

1) Tiramisu.

2) Lasagna.

3) Cheesecake.

4) Spaghetti Cabonara.

5) My mother in laws tomato soup.

6) Chocolate mousse.

7) Wild mushroom risotto.

8) Home made rustic pizza.

9) Swedish sausage dish.

10) Oven baked plums with crumbled dough.

tirsdag den 17. maj 2011

30 days of Lolita

day 3 - 10 things you hate in Lolita

1) The brand whores. I hate that some people see brand as the only true thing to wear as a lolita.

2) The shoes arn't always comfortable in Lolita and you tend to get rather sore feet.

3) The petties, I just hate them!

4) That a LOT of the brand designs are WAY to small.

5) Brand is rather expensive.

6) That people tend to see Lolita as somthing sexual such as a fetish or age-play.

7) Cosplay lolita, why do popel always fall into that trap?

8) That brand shops aren't to find outside Japan, besides U.S.A and France.

9) The lolis who hate chubby/fat lolitas.

10) How long time it sometimes takes to get a costum made dress made... yikes.

mandag den 16. maj 2011

30 days of lolita

day 2 - 10 things you love in lolita

1) It makes me feel like a princess.

2) I love how one always end up looking in lolita, wether it's a beautiful princess or a Regal young lady.

3) The dresses and how much effeort people often put into sewing their own designs.

4) I get the chance to wear som lovely wigs, my own hair is so thin and boring to look at.

5) The compliments I get from my BF :D

6) That my mother likes lolita as well.

7) The friends I've gotten trough Lolita.

8) Lolita made me want to start sewing my own clothing.

9) Some of the stunningly beautiful protraits taken by lolitas in their sunday finest.

10) A good reason for me to start collecting a lot af lovely victorian stuff :D

søndag den 15. maj 2011

Give more blogs and 30 Day Lolita challenge start!

Again I shall start in a "do this over a periode og days and tell us bout yourself" challenge ans THIS is WILL complete. It's about Lolita I belive it's time you knew about me as a Lolita and who I am. If you want to try this yourself, here's the link

Okay day 1 - 10 things bout your lolita bubble

1) I may not who it but I am more of a tom boy eventhough I like lolita very much. But I don't wan't to wear the bouyish styles of lolita so I've chosen EGL and Classic since I think they compliment my need for feeling feminen.

2) I actually don't really like OTT sweet it's like it's the only thing people wan't to wear and to be honest I think they it's starting to a little outof control. I don't MIND sweet lolita just OTT sweet with their weird bear hats, overly useage of alice bows and stickers on their faces. For me OTT sweet is more like trying to be too childish than being an adorable girl.

3) I'm always scared of being a lolita in front of experienced lolitas since I fear that I might not be good enoug. Yes, sadly a thing that every girl (lolita or not) have a battle with, it's the urge of feeling like you belong somwhere.

4) The first lolita blog I ever came across was Her Curious Elegance by Raegan. An amzing blog since most that she blogs about is somthing I can really relate to. She is an amazing girl and I think you should take a look at her blog.

5) Eventhough I am a lolita I don't waste my time looking at egl_secrets. I really hate that since, most of it is jyst bithing about other lolitas and other frilly butts trying to feel superior to those who can't live up to the name of "Lolita"

6) I love wearing my blommers with a cute top or a t-shirt, they are the best realxing wear I have at home and when I get sick or just tired, and want to chill-laz on the soda, I put on my blommers and just fell relaxed.

7) I don't mind replicas/copies/rip-offs whatever you call them. For me it's not about the name, I couldn't care less if it's I.W, A.P BtssB or AATP. I know this may chock many of you and a lot of you may be thinking "LAAAAAWL! frilly B!tch be crazy!" and honest I can only say that it's not that important to me. I just want to have the desingns that the brands make and I can't fit into alot of it. I might be able to sometimes fit into I.W JSK and dresses, but why pay for a real I.W when I can get a replica of it for fewer cash and that fits me?

8) I normally don't wear petties or only use one. I can't wear more because I have so muc junk-in-the-trunk so if i use more than one I end up looking like my butt is WAY bigger that int already is.

9) I don't like any j-music bads really. I don't care that much for J-music at all. I do listen to Vocaloid and anime music but I'm not a fan of any real bads. I was as a teenager but now I've sort of grown out of it, and I can't stand the feeling of that you HAVE to be a fan of at least ONE j-fashion bad to be a true Rori~chan. Most lolis I know like Dir.Grey Gackt and things like that, I would much rather listen to Black Sabbath, Metallica and stuff like that, yeah i SOOOO rori.

10) I am really bad at shopping for Lolita. I always forgett to by things such as jewelry, boleroes, Cutsews and so. I always end up buying only a dress and a cute headress/bow and I then always end up with just an uncomplete set of clothing XD

torsdag den 12. maj 2011

Lolita shout out #17

Baby the stars shine bright has a new print out soon called Night Fairy Fantasia. The cute thing about this print is that it is inspired by Peter Pan's flight to neverland and you can clearly see it. I would love to own the Navy version of it, since Babys Navy color is often a very rich dark blue.

Angelic pretty are selling some adorable new sailor lolita socks in a vast variaty of colors! From the classic A.P pink to common Black and White. Also they've got some new cutsews that I don't really care for. Don't like the design of them to be honest.

PUTUMAYO has a very cute ned t-shirt for the casual lolita.

Wow this was a very short an boring update, sorry... There haven't been anything to talk about in the lolita fashion world lately. Or maybe it's just me who is really bad at finding news. Btw! If any of you know the comic Tiny Kitten Teeth, who wouldn't want a print with either Hopscotch or TigerButtah? I would kill for a cute skirt or JSK with either of the two on it :DHopscoths is owned by Becky and Frank (creators of Tiny Kitten Teeth)

fredag den 6. maj 2011

Lolita Shout Out #16

Sorry for the missing blog entry yesterday I was really bussy doing all kinds of stuff there. Hand to give and interview for a Danish newspaper about being in activations and how we fell about it. The municipality in which I live have a thing called "useful activation" were people without work, internships or in between jobs can be a part of and earn som cash that way and still have something to do. What we do where I am is gardening service. We help old or handicaped people who can't take care of their own garden and we get paid for it as well. I really like it, it's better than sitting at home for several months dong nothing but surfing the net and watching day time television. This is a great way for me to get som exercise, fresh air, meet a lot of very sweet old people and actually feel like im giving people somthing in retur, plus I return home tired (the good way) and happy :D
If the pay was a little better I might have thought of staying, but this is just a minor hiatus until I find myself an internship plus it helps me financially.

Okay movin on to the lolita part, uuuuuuuuh!

Angelic Pretty has releashed a very cute pinkXblack Yukata with matching headbow and purse. The lace collar is detachable. I will belive that it's a little utraditional, since most yukatas are normally made with traditional japanese prints. I woldn't own one myself since I think it's a little too.... well brand whore-ish to won a brand Yukata instead of a lovely traditional one.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright have a new cute collection on their page, the Versaille Rose collection which is very grown up compared to what Baby normally have for sale. I also find it funny that it almost bears the same name as on of I.Ws collections.

Metamorphose has a awesome new summer collection that is imspired from the 1950s Rockabilly with the polkadots and vinyl records. One of their dresses is really cute a truely inspired by the 1950s girls dress. The rest of it is more traditional lolita.

And on a final note.
I've started saving up for the Strawberry Jam collection from I.W. A friend of mine is going to Japan next year and I've asked her to bring me home the Strawberry Jame collection (socks, high waist jsk, mini hat and socks, plus a bag and purse) and a Jsk/headbow set from Baby :D
OH i can't wait for it!!!

mandag den 2. maj 2011

Cry me a river, will you?

Have you ever know, or heard, of someone whu just couldn't understand that they were wrong? No matter how many people screamed it to then they were sure that it was the rest of the crowd that was wrong and not themself in person? You have? Well then you know how damn annoying and mindbuggeling stupid some of them sound when they talk.
I've recently experienced a girl on our danish j-fashion forum who posted a picture of her first official lolita outfit on our website. Needless to say it wasn't the best lolita outfit, mostly because it was pretty cosplay-ish so we told her that she could prehaps remove some og the bows a laces to make it look less ita, you know, give her a friendly push in the right direction.... But apprently we were all wrong on our view of her outfit, was not cosplay lolita since we had clearly misunderstod what cosplay lolita was, and that she knew what it was. Several other people tried to tell her that she was wrong about her interpertation of what cosplay lolita was. Again she denied and made it sound like she was right and all the other of us were wrong wrong WRONG. She had studied, researched and worn alot Lolita so we were NOT to tell her that she was wrong since she clearly knew everything there was to know about lolita. Persistant aren't we, little missy? But I had to write my entry to her and tell her that I would stand behind the others opinion on the outfit and that she should prehaps listen to what they had to say, when a bounch of people tells you that you are wrong there's probably somthing about, don't you think?

But yes, these kind of people annoys the hell out of me, it's almost as the feel like that were clearly can't see how perfect she is and how she possible couldn't improve her looks more, now I'm not saying I'm a perfect lolita, hell I have a LOOOOONG way to go befor I'm even remotly satisfied with my lolita wardrobe, but these kind of people just don't realize it when they are wrong. They will make up excuses as to why and how they are wrong and trying to turn the whole situation around so that it's them who are the victems of our horrible accusations and lies.
whatever, if you can't handle the the time, don't do the crime.

How do you feel about these kind of people and do you actually know one?