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2012-01-26T01:05:00.002+01:00

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2012-01-16T00:02:00.002+01:00

I don't know why, but I just had to share this.
Today I woke up after a nightmare about me being pregnant.
But how is that a nightmare, you might ask, isn't wonderful to dream that you are pregnant and about to have a baby?

Not when you suffer from Tocofobia which is a fobia for being pregnant or giving birth.
But I dreamt that I was in my 3. month and that I had a belly. And I remember asking the figure (it wasn't a person as such but more of af blurry figure) if we could do anything about it, and the person said no, I had to go trough the entire thing with giving birth and everything.
I remember being really scared in the dream and desperate to just get rid of the baby.
then I woke up and I was really scared! I was so happy to find out that it was just a dream but it was a horrible dream.

I'm 25 and I don't wan't to have kids.
Sure it might change some day and if it does...well we'll see then,but for now the whole idea of giving birth and so on is really something that can svare the living shit out of me. It's not the fear of the child being deform or born dead, no... It's the whole point og crapping out a baby trough your vagina in a cascade of blood, urine, feces, fetal fat and amniotic fluid!
The whole Idea of pushing somethin that is a whole BABY out of my vagaine is SO unappealing, gross and I won't lie when I say that it scares me...alot! And also the risk of your perineum splitting or getting cut open in order for the baby to get out. URG!
The mere thought of it gives me nausea and makes my stomach turn!
I am SO afraid og getting pregnant that you won't even belive it.

I don'tmind it at all if my siblings geth pregnant,I would be so happy for them and I can't wait to become a aunt, but I don't wan't to become a mom.
I've never had the urge to have a baby, never!
My siblings are clsoe to or in their 20's and their body is screaming for a child but mine hasn't said a word at all, and I am happy for it.

And I think it fist perfect.
Even my Hubby doesn't want kids and neither do I.
I don't mind other peoples kid, to some extend, but I can NOT see myself as a mother at all. The whole idea of being a parent for 18 years, with hardly any time for one self and my realtionship with my Hubby is greatly unappealing and I must admit I am to egoistic to let a thing such as a child come into our lifes and take alot of OUR quality time.

Sorry if I have offended any one of you, it wasn't my entention.
I don't mind people with kids, I just don't want to have any myself.

2012-01-14T23:25:00.002+01:00

Congratulations!

Now I don't care much for the royal family although I am proud that we have the oldest monarchy in the world and today was the Queens 40 year anniversary as Queen of Denmark.
Next in line is her son Frederic and his wife Mary so it'll be interresting when our Queen Margrethe II resigns and let's her son become king.
As said befor I am not a huge follower af the Queen and her family but I do watch TV when there's a wedding or a Christening of one of the children, and when the Queen holds her traditional New New Year speech other than than, no.

But still.
Congratulations Margrethe on your 40 years on the throne.
May you have many more come :)

2012-01-14T01:10:00.003+01:00

Anon, for those who are weak.

So there have been alot of drama going on the forum for Japanese streetfashion where I am and I must say it haven really been a peaceful drama.

I've recently heard that one of the mods on the website was attacked outside the forum on her tumbl and blog by a person who was, as it sounded from the flaming, from the forum also and I was choked when she told me what had been written to her. Someone was appenrtly not pleased that she tried to lock the thread where this drama was going on, just to make sure no one would end up hurting anyone, but this must haven made someone butt-hurt, because this person started flaming her, calling her all sort of horrible stuff (which I will not mention here) and let's just say it wasn't really nice the words and names the anon called her.
But what bothers me the most is that this person was an ANON.

For me anon is the choice for those who are too weak, scared and too afraid to actually man up (if you'll pardon the turn of phrase) to say what they actually mean personally to the persons face. Instead they hide behinde an anon character, knowing that not ONE single person will be able to find who they are. It's two-faced, childish and not to mention a VERY idiotic behvaior!
So I'll say that instead of using an anon to say hard and harmefull things to others, show your ugly mug and face the person you clearly have a problem with.

But all in all just try to be more conctructive if you are not please with someones actions or what they have said. Formulate yourself in mature an understandable language rather than the bitchy teenage girl tone, by calling people things such as: fat ungly bitch and so. Nothing good ever comes out of this sort of behavior. We get more from trying to be more grown up and try to sort our problems out with a civil tone. So if you, dear anon who flamed this poor girl, are reading this, think about it, instead of acting like a spoiled butt-hurt brat and face the consequence of the choice YOU have made.

2012-01-08T23:57:00.002+01:00

How could I have forgotten?

Such a vital thing as being a teenager?
But why did I suddenly wanted to write a blog entry about being a teenager, or how it was?
It all comes down to how I view modern day teenagers. Most of them are spoiled brats who needs a good beating. Others are just... weird?

It's like they live in a constant hyperactive state of endless glee and at some point this have proven to be a really annoying and can bother the crap out of me.
Have you ever seen how a teenager who is an Otaku writes?

"OMG HAI!!!!1! I Love anime, it's SOOO epic XDDD!!!11! and I LOOOOVE everythign kawaii!!1oneone12! so yah! Write if u wonna B frendz KK! XDDDDDD <3<3<3<3<3<3"

that itself is pretty much enough for me to instantly not like them and not only that. They have an over usage of exclamation marks and question marks and smileys, oh gawd don't forget the smileys. Plus alot of the have a weird tendency to write in caps.

But not only the writing, the whole state of a teenage wapanese is just horrible. They always cosplay mainstream things (naruto, Bleach, Tokyo Mew Mew ect), thinks yaoi is only when two boys are kissing and thinks that being a neko girl/boy is the same as a genuine cosplay.... dear lads and lasses... no... no it's not.

I know I am a bitch for writing this but suddenly I stop op and I just caught myself doing the same thing that my parents did when I was a teenager.... I forget just HOW stupid I acted as a teen myself...

I remeber that I too was over hyperactive with my friends nearby and that I also wrote like a total dingus and that I also thought being a neko girl was a truely awesome cosplay...
Wow.... how could I ever forget what being a teenager was like?
I mean it's one of the most important phases in ones life.

It's that one place where you are between being an a child and trying to become and andult. It's a difficult time where we face alot of mental and physical changes and it's a time where we just want to feel like we belong and that we are "okay"
So at some point I can see why otaku teenagers react the way they do, it's the child inside them that is giving the last of itself befor it becomes an adult.

And I will say that befor we judge another Otaku teenager, let's just sit back and re-think how we where as teenagers. I bet it would help alot in understanding why some of then act or write the way they do.

I know this is a weird thing to start talking about but I just felt like getting it of my chest.
We have a young girl on J-fashion who acts they way I just wrote and I really feel annoyed over her way of being, so that's why I had to think back on my teenage self and sort if just say, naaah, what the hell, she'll only be a teenager one time in her life, plsu she'll learn from her mistakes.

Zarsu Give away!

2012-01-05T14:45:00.004+01:00

Hejsa! Til jer der følger min blog og ikke allerede ved det, så afholder Zarsu en GIVE AWAY med nogle mega søde præmier :D
Og der er til 3 vindere!
Reglerne for hendes give away er på hendes side, så skynd jer at tage en kikker :D

2012-01-01T20:15:00.002+01:00

uuurrrgggggg.....

We can now write 2012 on our calenders and wow what a year I've had.
But the best part was new years eve, holy moly what a night.

We started preparing for the party a day or two in adavnce, just be sure eveything was okay so we didn't have to stress a whole lot on the day itself. The food was ordered from a place near by called Fandanko and they arrive with all the food at around 10 in the morning. We were told they would arrive with it between 10 and 16 so we decided to wake up at 10. I was avake when they delivered the food, but was lying in bed just snuggling with my duvet and y BF, so Ophelia had to take the order.

We had already decorated the table and the apartment, so the last things to do was to gussy and make sure the food god warmed and served. People started showing up and everything went really well. They were all dressed so nicely and the food was amazing!
We were around 9 people but had food for 10 so I had some leftover dessert for today, MWAHAH!

Everything went as it should and nobody got hurt. and wow did it get mezzy later on.
Suddenly eveything was covered in serpentines, confettie, small streamers and small silver stars all over the apartment and the table.

And when the clock struck midnight we had 5 bottles of champagne and I don't know how much alkohol on the table and in our blood. A friend of ours had gone trough the trouble of taking his X-box 360, an HD flatscreen tv and some games with him so we had something to have fun with whilst waiting for midnight.

I ust say that the firework display was beautiful. From the window in our bedroo you could see out over the city and see all the fireworks!
I went to bed at 3:30 in the morning since I was VERY tired and mr wonderful joined in a little bit later. Almost all the guests ended up sleeping at our place while zarsu and kenny (her hubby) went home.

So today, on January 1st 2012, I am just dead beaten. I am a snuggling in the sofa with my duvet, some leftover Asti, a pizza and some soda pop and I don't want to do squat!
I'll just enjoy today and prehaps go out into the town tomorrow to see how eveything is.
I know that somebody burned down on of out local groceries stores near us during the night. Bot the apothecary and pizzaria that lay close up at it got damaged by the fire.

Anyways.
Welcome to the year 2012 where another end of the world awaits us. You know, like last year ;D
Hope 2012 will be a kind year to all of you <3

2011-12-28T02:38:00.002+01:00

Ye old yule tide.

Christmas is over soon and a new year is just around the corner.
it's now that we have the time to look back at this year and really think of what we have done for ourselves and for others be it friends, foes, family, colleagues or acquaintances but it is also time to reflect upon good and bad things this year has brought with it and to convert it to somthing useful that will be used as a valuable lessons which we will use in the new year.
What does a new year bring? New opportinities, new experience new journeys and memories to be remebered, new conflicst that will teach us more about ourselves and a new an clean lookout in how to deal upcomming obstacles.
I myself have learned alot about me as a person this year and a lot has happend to me.
A dear friend of mine moved to Ireland to start a new life.
I've been together with my hubby for 7 years now.
I've made new friends.
I've tried working as a baker for a short period.
I've bencome more confident with myself and how I deal with my problems.
I've finally defeted my angts and fear of my own immortality.
And for the first time ever, since I moved out of the periode of being a teenager to becomming a young adult, do I feel grown up and mature.
Sure I may not own my own house, car, have children a job nor be married, but I feel mature and like I am an adult. I am not scared of it but I am happy for it.
I am looking foward to the new year and what it might bring and I will try my best to do what I can, as a mre human being, to become a better person, and to strive to reach my goals for this year.

My goals are:
Be a better friend.
Be a better sister.
Rethink a new way to make myself more attrative on the jobmarket.
Lose the last kilos of fat.
Become healthier.
Visit or at least talk more with my dad.
Start saving for a vacation with me and my hubby.
Keep practicing mathematics.
Do more for myself as a lolita.
Practice more on my drawing.
Try to learn how to sew.
Buy my christmas presents EARLY!
Do more for my blog.
Spend more time with my hubby (go for some walks, trips to the cinema, picnics ect)

I hope this year has brought you a loot of stuff to think about and a lot of joy, and I hope you will all have a happy new year and come through it with both eyes and fingers intact :)

Happy new Year guys, and take care of each other.

2011-12-16T00:05:00.002+01:00

Dear readers!
The new Starlight Magazine has been posted and I urge you to take a look at it :D

2011-12-08T10:31:00.001+01:00

All around the globe.
Hope you'll have a magic Christmas and a wonderful New Year <3

2011-12-01T20:51:00.002+01:00

Birthday and Christmas!

Hi guys!
I've finally turned 25!
Okay so I did it on November 26th but wow did I get a surprise!
I had planned that my family was to turn op on the satureday I turned 25 since it's a day where most of my family members could show up and it was in the weekend.
So I send out the invitations to every family member and I started making the arrangement; Setting the table, buying what we needed for the party and baked some cupcakes.
I was planning on baking the last things on the day itself so it was freashly baked and still a slight bit warm, but my mom told me to wait, so I did.

later I got a phonecall from a really good friend of mine, who told me that a they were to attend to a party on the satureday I turned 25, and since they were comming to Aalborg (the town where I live) anyway that they would like to crash at our place and say hello.
I said that ofcourse they were welcom in our house, since we rarely see them and told my Hubby about it. I told him that Lene (my our friend) would take me out into town for a small bithday treat at a café of my choise, and that her BF would go home with him.

They day arrived (friday the 25th) and Daniel and I wen't down to the train station to pick up our friends. We did as planned and wen't our seperate ways. Toke and Daniel wen't home and Lene and I wen't down into the town to find a café.
As we walked around in the town, I told her about Aalborg and about the historic buildings and took her different places just to show her a small part of Aalborg. We talked alot together and had alot of fun and slowly the clock was reaching 17:00.

Lene told us that we should probably head home to me and my hubby's apartment since Toke and Daniel was making the dinner for tonight. I agreed and we wen't down to take a bus home. We arrived at the aparment and I put the key in the lock, and when the door opend I saw ALL my friends and my entire family out in the small hallway of our apartment screamin SURPRISE!

I got SO scared that I slammed the door SHUT again and just stood out there starring at Lene.
My Hubby opend the door again and everybody were smiling at me. I was so happy that I started crying and I really didn't know what to day, I was chocked and happy.
My Hubby told me that he had pallend this for months and it was because I, myself, had planned to throw a HUGE party for my friends and family, when I turned 25, but as we got closer to the actual date I could see that we just didn't have the budget for it, and Hubby was sad that we couldn't have the really BIG party, so he decided to gather everybody I knew for a surprise party t celebrate me.

After I had gathere myself I got alot of awesome presents.
I got the Kenwood I've been wanting since I was 16!
A candy adventcalender.
Alot of baking goods (candy melst, molds, ect)
4 boosk with desserts and parties (even two I really wanted!!)
A Jets Licensplate (I am a HUGE Jets fan!)
300kr ($55) and a couple of homeknitted socks from my Nana :D
Skyrim from my Hubby.
And the evening out in the town from Lene and Toke ^^

Best Night ever!
I was so happy and we had such great fun. everybody had pinched in with some food and drinks and there was enough for me and Hubby to live of leftovers for 4 days solid!
The night wen't by SO fast and the last guest (my friends) went home at about 3 at night. We talked and laughed alot and drank a couple of beers. I would lie if I told you that I wasn't really tired the next day and I just used the rest of the weekend on the couch, just chilling and having a blast of a weekend. Toke and Lene did sleep at our place and wen't for a different town the day after, where they were to attend ANOTHER birthday party.

So eventhough I was sort of sad about the whole ordeal with Penny Lane, I was indeed happy with all of this! So the next party we have planned is the New years party!
And it's christmas now.
And ind Denmark we have a tradition of showing a christmascalender show that starts on the 1st of December all the way to the 24th of December. and we have had many since the 60's. We do have a tendency to re-show some of the olds ones and some times they make new ones. This year they have one new and one old. And the old one is from when I was a kid :D
Oh yea, and I'm going to be a secret santa for another loli from the j-fashion forum. I won't tell what I've put the gift, since she might read my blog :)

For now, darlings.
Happy Holidays, and a Happy New year ;D

2011-11-24T13:42:00.002+01:00

Oh hey everybody!

Okay I guess it's tome for a minor update, just to let you all know what have been happening lately. Okay so I finished my job training yesterday, but they decided they didn't need me at all. it was something with the ability to talk to the others at work, and it was sort of hard to talk to one, who just didn't seem to like me at all. I tried to small talk to her, just to loosen up the tenxion between us, but she just kept replying with short sentences.

I also asked her if we could talk, since I thought both her and I were miss communication with eahc other and I wanted to get it out of the world and prehaps move towards a better co-worker realtionship with her. She just told me to remind her of it, since her memory wasn't that good. Okay I though and mentioned it after a while, so she would remember it. She just told me that she didn't have the time that day... okay, fair ebough, we are usually tired when we get home, and most of us sleep. But time wen't on and I started to really get the hang on things. How to knead the dough, how to measure and so on. So yesterday my boss told me to follow her, we had to talk to my job counselor, who was there to check up on me.

My boss told me that everything had been going well, but they thought, after two weeks, that I would never learn anything, but after three weeks, everything changed. I started catching up on stuff, but I didn't really communicate that good with one of the girls, the girl who had me under her wings, while my boss was off to the pastry school. She told me that THAT was the main reason ty why I couldn't get the "job" but I was indeed a sweet girl, whe was eager to learn and who was really motivated. I was sad to get told that I didn't get the "Job". But the worst part was that I started crying infrom of her and my job counselor, and I don't know why?
I did get angry, however, when my boss told me (or at least that was how I heard it, so I can be horribly wrong) that the girl, who took are of me when she was away, had tried to AWAOID the conversation with me intentionally! I didn't get the "job" because I didn't really have any good communication with the other girls, and when I try to reach out to the one who didn't seem to like me, she avoided it? No WONDER I couldn't talk to her.

I was allowed to finish my jobtraining a week before time, and my boss told me if I wanted to go home now, after the convercation, or If I wanted to stay the week out. I told her straight out that I wanted to finish what I had started that day, and just gome home to collect myself and talk to my Hubby about this whole ordeal. She was impressed that I said that I wanted to finish what I ahd started, because that was a good attitude to have in life.
She told me that she would gladely write a nice recommendation for me to show to ther places I might try out, and that she would try and remember some of the places she knew I would fit in better. I was so happy, my boss has been SO sweet to me and she has really taught me alot. Penny Lane was a good place to be and I would LOVE to have stayed there, but if I can't communicate with the other girl, there is and never will be room for me.

I am not angry with any of this, not at all. I am happy and relieved and now I am just looking forward to a little down time where I can collect my thoughts and find a new place where I might become a baking student.

I've been looking forward to friday and sautureday. Friday some friends of mine will be visiting us and then one of them will take me out on a small café, to celebrate my birthday, which is on satureday btw. And yes as mentioned befor I will be turning 25 this satureday. wow...25! I don't know it just seems like such a big deal! I can't wait for it.
I won't be having the huge birthday party as I first had planned, can't afford it, but I will be having a small and comfy birthday together with my family and my Hubby :)
And Also it's christmas soon! ZEOMG! I love Christmas!
I have some new decorations I can't wait to put up, and I will be a secret santa for a random lolita from J-fashion.dk ^^

2011-11-02T20:34:00.003+01:00

When you could just crawl down under a rock.

Hello all.
have you ever had one of those days where it seems like everything you do just goes wrong?
Well I don't have those days, I seem to have those WEEKS!
I've been at Penny Lane for two weeks now (I am currently in the start of my 3rd week) and it just seems that no matter WHAT I do it seems to go wrong in one way or another, and I belive that it's only because I see the negative things I do instead of looking at the good things I create. Sure I put a little too much salt in one bacth of dough, but I made 4 that was perfect and! AND yet I see only the wrong doing!

Yesterday I came home sad, afte a rough day, and when my Hubby came home I started to cry. I was angry with my self and for not being able to remember anything I was told, or I ended up ruining a dough so I had to make a new one, and not only that I felt like the girl who is my menot didn't like me all that much. I fell like that every time I ask somthing that is related to what I'm making ("I was suppose to only make half of this recipe, right?" og "What is your verdict on this dough? Do I need to knead it more") just seems to annoy her.

I only ask when I am in doubt, I am new to all this Job Training and I haven't been baking since December last year. And I am NOT used to being at such a stressfull workplace. When we were baking at school it was very down to earth, sure we had to hurry every now and then, but mostley it was very casual. here I have to make ALOT of doughs and roughly befor 9 in the morning (lately I've been meeting at 6 in the morning) and I just can't, for now, keep up with their pace.
And it seems like my current mentor forgets that I am in fact NEW!
It's barely been three weeks and she can't expect me to just remember everything and so on. I try HARD to please her and show her that I friggin what this! This is my DREAM and yet she just seems to get annoyed with me all the time.

I know I am knew and that I still need to get a hang of their routine, but for christ sake woman, give me a chance here. I was angry, sad and everything because I saw myself as an utter idiot and retard for not being able to do anything right. I am SO scared of screwing everything up that I make mistakes and get really sad when I do a minor mistake such as... adding 30 grams of sugar instead of 15 til a recipe or some stupid little thing like that.
Again I AM new, and I have to remember myself of this very fact as well.
I can expect myself to know their WHOLE routine by heart after just three weeks and I CAN'T expect to do everything perfectly.
I keep forgetting that I need to realise that mistakes WILL be made when I am new and it's only trough my mistakes that I get the hang of it all. But wow is it hard to remember to say this to yourself. I try and I try and I WILL remember it... for now I just have to do the best I can.

After feeling like my mentor doesn't like for a little while now, I decided to write to her, telling her that I wanted to have a small meeting with her where we were to discuss my progress so far, and that I think there might be some miscommunication between her and I, and If that IS the case then I would like to get to the buttom of it all.

Wow that was alot of vile tasting bile there.
Okay Don't get me wrong I love working at Penny Lane, they do EVERYTHING from scratch. They make their own marmelades, their buttercream is REAL buttercream and not just some margerine with sugar and they use real chocolate you have to temperate first. You hardly see any bakeries or patisseries do this anymore. It's time consuming and very expoensive and yes... it is but the taste is... well Out of this world good!
And sometimes I get to to the really great stuff! All the pastry stuff such as piping meringue onto the lemon meringue pies, filling the berry pies with almond creme or dipping the honey cakes in the chocolate. I know it seems boring to some, but to me this is what I want to make! Cakes, pastries, sweets and desserts. And these last couple of days I brown cakes (danish christmas cookie) and it's been nice just stadnig there for my self, just working in my own pace and still manage to get something done.
I'll have to go to work again at 6 tomorrow and I am a little afraid. I am afraid I will get scolded or somthing liek that because I feel like I made a mistake with one of the doughs, and I am not sure if it's just something I actually did or something I THINK I did... I'll see tomorrow, for now I don't wan't to be scared... I've told my mentor I need to talk and I just hope she'll actually sit down and talk with me.

On a side note.
I am turning 25 in 24 days! UUUH!
Can't wait for it to happen. sure I am one step closer to my grave, but hey! At 25 I can do whatever I wan't! Wmahahaha 8D
I am looking forward to seeing the whole family and to see what they have bought me. I know it sounds douchebag-ish to say that, but normally I don't really fancy the gifts I just like the company and that people thought of me that day. But I am tuning 25 man! In Denmark that is a huge thing, like turning 10-18-20-25-30 and so on. We have a tradition in Denmark taht when you turn 25 you have to be given cinnamon... It means that your friends take you outside, pours water over you and THEN a ass loade of cinnamon... I don't knwo WHY we do it, but it's just a tradition, also like you get a small bag of pepper when you turn 30 :)
I have kindly asked my friends not to do the cinnamon thing agains me, and that I would much rather have a small bag or cinnamon sticks, hahah :)

I can't wait to write an entry next time, hopefully It'll contain a little more "Happy Happy!" rather than "OH BOO HUU!!!!"
Be seeing you my sweets :D

2011-10-26T09:37:00.002+02:00

A late update.

Omg... is it really... you?
IT IS! OH WOW! I thought you would have left me because I haven't updated in a while.
Sorry guys I have been so bussy you wouldn't belive it.
I have finally started on my internship at Penny Lane, and let me just tell you that it's so great but really hard. I have to go to work a 3 in the night and I work till 11 in the morning, befor going home to sleep, and wake up when my Hubby comes home. So that is pretty much what my first week has been about; Sleeping, eating, workin... nothing more than that.

Okay I was so lucky that I was given a day off Satureday, so I didn't have to worry about me not arriving at the Halloween party which a friend of me and I had arraenged. I finally arrived at Ophelias house on Friday, after I godt home from work and had the time to take a little nap. A friend og her's called Bianca also had to sleep over, since she was also going to attend the party on Satureday. So I arrived and we had lost of fun! Ophelia had aleady baked alot of cupcakes and I had also bought with me MY stuff for baking. So we decided to make a little more cake for all the guests. I ended up baking some chocolate cupcakes with green vanilla frosting, bone sprinkles and some cute pumpkin vinyl pix, and besides that, we made a Tombstone cake!
It ended up looking pretty damn awesome!
The rest of the day just passed with us girls having alot of fun, drinking some tea and trying to help Bianca getting ready for the "Hetalia" meet-up in Århus.

Satureday Bianca had to go to the meet-up, so Ophelia and I had to get ready for the party. We started out by making the last things for the party, such as the sandwiches and so, and we had yo go out and buy some prizes for the winners, since we had arranged some party games for later on. Later Gabrielle and Dinja (two of Ophelia's friends) came and helped us decorate everything for the party, but then it all changed. After we had dcorated the livingroom and the garden path, a lot of people suddenly wrote that they weren't going to attend the party after all. two of them had become sick and the rest didn't really give a proper reason as to why.
It all ended up with Ophelia getting really sad and thought it was becasue no one wanted to join in on her party and be with her.
Both me, Gab and Dinya ended up getting really angry at the people who didn't attend the party, and were SO flippant to just tell us ON THE DAY that "oh sorry, I can't attend the party anyway, LULZ!"
Porr Ophelia. I didn't want to let all the food and candy go to waste, so I ended up telling veryone that we shouldn't let this opportunity go to waste.
We ended up bringing all the food up, putting on our Halloween playlist and having a party with 5 people. And you know what? It was SO much fun!
So to those who just didn't show up without a reason, to hell with you all.

My Hubby was suppose to join the party as well, but after I got the internship a whole WEEK befor I had expected it, they train tickets we had ordered could not be used, since they were cheap train tickets, which basically means that you can NOT change the time you wan't to travel, nor can you get your money refunded. So he didn't want to buy an extra ticket and he just ended up staying home for the whole weekend, sending me to Randers to the party. I missed him but when I got some Sunday, he greated me on the trainstation with hugs, kisses and alot of sweet words <3
I was just happy to be home again :D

Okay I will sign off now, and I will try to my very best to update L.S.O tomorrow, but I may not end up doing it until the weekend, where I have some spare time.
Until next time guys, have a great time :D

2011-10-17T09:23:00.003+02:00

Just got back!

I just got back from the interview at Penny Lane and I must say I was pleasantly surprised when I saw that it was a young woman who was the Master Baker in the shop. She's only 27 and besides being the Master Baker, she is also the shops only Pastry apprentice. The interview itself only took like 30 minutes, and it went very well, or so I believe it did, and I will get a phone call either today or tomorrow., where she will tell me when I'll be able to start and inform me about the minor details about how my time as an intern will be and what I'll be doing, who I'll be helping and so on. The owner of the place was supposed to meet me just to get a quick look at who I was and what sort of person I was. I can't wait for her to call back and I am sitting here RIGHT NOW, jumping in my seat just waiting for the phone to ring, hahaha :)

Also the whole transportation problem has finally been solved. I get to burrow my aunties bike and my mother will buy me a helmet (safety first!) and I'll be able to burrow the bike until I get one of my own. If I get told I can start tomorrow already, I'll have to call my mom and ask her to bring the bike out today, instead of Sunday as it was originally planned.

Oh yeah. I decided to make some last changes to my Halloween costume and I won't be going as the first doll concept I originally had planned, but I'll try and make the same Halloween costume (and make up) as I did last year. It took some time to make and it was a BITCH to get off the face again, hahah. The liquid eyeliner I used almost act like glue on the face and is actually pretty hard to get off again. It doesn't stain the skin or anything; it's just very waterproof i guess XD

Oh on a last note. Jobteam... why do I have to continue Jobteam when I have an internship? And not only that, they really do EVERYTHING to make sure that Jobteam is boring, and you want to do something else than sending god damn applications every day. They don't have flash installed on any of the computers! Laptops’ and stationeries’. So you can't watch anything on Youtube, you can't play games in Facebook and you CAN'T listen to any music! I didn't bring my own PC today, since I found it stupid to carry a laptop around while having a job interview, so it stayed home today, and by the Gods do I regret it!

And now for a picture. Just to show that Autmn doesn't have to be boring, cold, rainy and gloomy. Just look at the colors! I don't care if this is shopped or not, I LOVE the colors <3

2011-10-15T19:52:00.002+02:00

Minor update, just because I can.

I can't belive that I have a minor interview with Penny Lane on Monday where they have to find out what kind of person I am, befor they decide If they wan't to have me as an apprentice or not. I am VERY nervouse and not really sure of what I should take with me. I will, of course, take my application with me and my Portfolio but I am not sure what else I might need. I don't have any references or anything like that. Nut I REALLY hope they choose me. I've been busting my ass off for almost a year now in my quest to gain me an internship :C
So If I get it I'll be so happy that I could just scream! I've been wanting an apprentienchip at Penny Lane ever since I decided to become a pastry chef, simply becayse they making eveything from the bottom and with good quality ingredients.

Also I had to say goodbye to an RPG session I played every other satureday with my BF and some of our friends. It was Warhammer fanatsy and I have grown so found of that system, and I really like the dark, grim and gritty world it takes place in. I am sort of happy that the session has come to an end, since it has been going for some time now, over a year, and out characters were pretty highlevel, so it got harder and harder for our GM to keep throwing challenges after us. It was a great run, and I am happy to have spend many hours every other Satureday, playing with my friends :D

2011-10-12T10:01:00.002+02:00

SO much stuff to look forward to!

Hi all, so a very sweet friend of mine asked me to start updating my blog more and I will try my very best to do so. I will update with the Lolita Shout Out as usual but I will also try to write a little abut me and my life in here, so you guys can sort of get a better understading of who I am as a person.

first off let my link you to the Danish Lolita Magazine "Starlight Magazine"
I know it's in Danish but don't think about that, dudes and dudettes, look at the photoshoots man! They are so awesome and beautiful <3
All and of the girls shown in the different shoots are so talented. Hope you'll take a look at it and please do post a comment on my blogging telling what you think about it :D

Okay so what should I talk about this time? hmmm. I can't really think of anything special at the moment. OH I'm going to a Halloween party the 22nd this month and I'll be gone for the whole weekend. Normally we don't celebrate Halloween in Denmark, we do have a day which reminds of Halloween called All Hallows Eve but instead of pumpkins, to make Jack 'o' Laterns, we used beets to create the same concept as the pumpkin lanters, to scare away evil ghouls. But no one ever celebrate it in these modern times.
But since the American ways are starting to grown more and more into the Danish habits we have started celebrating Halloween and Valentines day.
I love Halloween and I loved it even befor it became populair amongst the rest of the Danish people. So I can't wait to go to the party, I'll be dressed up as a creepy doll, which is very easy when you have a lolita closet, hahahahaha.

Also I am thinking of ordering the Vampire Requiem Long JSK since I LOVE that dress and I was thinking of trying to get a complete set with it, bag, headress and shoes, I don't have any trouble finding the bag and the headpiece, but the shoes is a different matter. I don't wan't to spend a whole lot of cash on brand shoes, since I'll be scared of ending up with a pair of shoes that cost me a fortune but only kept for one week or so, so I am trying to find a cheaper blolita shoe in Navy as well, and is that hard to come by? Yes it is!
I've looked at several cheap lolita websites, Bodyline, Taobao, Qutieland, nothing! They all come in this cute baby blue or sky blue color so I just have to keep in searching .____ .

Oh and a small random thing I've fallen in love with: Peach tea, wow how did I not taste this any sooner? I friggin love Peach tea. When It's vinter I normally drink alot of tea, with sweetener no sugar, because I don't wan't the extra calories since I've started on a change of habits after I disvored I as more prone to get clots in the legs, due to a gene which both my mom, me, granmother and sister has so I had to talk to dietician to put together a meal plan, and to show every secound week to get weighed. I've forced myself to drink more water (Rather than juice, soda pop and kool-aid), eat several times a day (alot of veggies and fruites) and exercise more and on that noet I've lost 7 kilos already, so I am well on may way to reach my goal of 65 kg, which is the normal weight I should have. I am so happy that I've finally gotten to finally start loosing weight and become a lot more healthier :D

Okay I don't have more to talk about, for now so I'll just sign off.
I haven't checked for miss spelled words, but I still hope you guys know what I wanted to tell you, haha :)

2011-10-07T09:33:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #25 and Steve Jobs

Victorian Maiden has a new dress out Henrietta Blouse dress which, for me, is a dress with a lot of combination opportunities. and also, again, I love the V.M colorscheme for being earthy and feminine. Also the dress can either stayed closed of you can unbuttom the lover buttoms and end up with a whole new dress so all in all a very versitil dress.

Metamorphose has a new series on the line soon called the Maguerite Wreath Series containing three dresses (one OP and two JSK) one skirt, one pair of socks, a bonnet a headbow and ribbon hair combs. The print choise is rather odd compared to what season we are currently in and I see it more as a sort of summery print rather than Autum/Winter. I would actually have thought that Meta would have come out with prints and designs maching the season.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright has a new JSK for sale right now called Veronica Ellise which comes in an unsual color I haven't seen befor in Lolita, emerald green. It's not an ugly color at all and it works really well with the dress, but the dress itself seems... boring and all the bows is a tad to much for me. The only color that seems to pull off all those bows is the black version of it, but remove the bows and you have a pretty decent dress.

Alice and the Pirates has this wonderful new pochette out called very simply the AP Coffin Porchette. I adore the design and I will love to have it in my closet. yes I am a sucker for the gohitc feel to lolita, but without it being OTT gothic.

Innocent World has a couple of things within the Delf Lotta series and one of them is this skirt. I don't really like the skirt and I guess it's because it seems really short on the picture, compared to what you normally see as satdart forthe length of a dress and/or skirt. And also I know that I.W makes some very plaine and down to eart designs, but this design is so simple that it actually seems boring and meh like.

As a lot of you may know Steve Jobs recently died after a long term illness due to Pancreatic Cancer and it was a huge loss for a lot of people around the world. I don't give a hoot about Apple myself since I find most Apple Products to be mere brandwhoring and therefor don't care about it. But I will however say that it sadens me to know that Mr. Jobs has died. He was the founder of somthing I hold dear in my heart, Pixar Studios, and I amd indeed sad that such a great visionary, inventor and business genius has died. I will however say that I am more that happy that he died with his family and loved ones around him. A thing I an greatly impressed about with Jobs is that he KNEW that it was his time, so he stepped back as the leader of Apple and gave the position of CEO to someone else befor he died, so that people didn't have to deal worth it later on after his death. The world has lost a great man, dad and husband but his legeacy will live on.

R.I.P Steve Jobs.

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2011-09-22T11:20:00.004+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #24

Innocent World has alot of stuff goin on right now, and even more on the reserve list. I won't be listing any of the items today, since there's SO many to show you. So instead I will put the link HERE so you can go watch yourself. I will, however, say that they have som really lovely autumn pieces for sale.

Angelic Pretty has a new print out called Petit Patissiere Menu.
Very adorable and I like this way better than their wonder cookie series.

Alice and the Pirates has a few new items. but the JSK caught my eye the moment I wen't into the online shop.

Qutieland (Although not a brand) is selling a few replicas like Vampire Requiem and Chained Berry Memoir. Iknow this will cause a huge scream from some lolitas, who thinks this is a horrible thing to do, and then there's a lolita like me, who doesn't really mind it. I think it's a good way for us, who can't fit these sizes to be able to have these lovely prints outself.

Bodyline is selling a new dress which sort of reminds me of the Holy Night Story JSK.

I wan't to look like this for winter, haha caroling lolita <3

2011-09-14T13:31:00.004+02:00

♠ Just a small update ♠

Hi guys!
So alot of stuff has happende over these last few month!
I've gotten 33 followers here on my blog, WOW! Thanks for following me guys, it means a so much for me to know some of you actually like my blog.

I've finally finally FINALLY gotten my internship as a baking student and even at the place where I wanted to be the most, Penny Lane! I got the phone call from the owner Monday last week and she asked me when I could start. I was so thrilled and said that I could, of course, start RIGHT away if they needed me. We talked a little and she said she would call me back later. I waited up til Tuursday to call her back but she wasn't present at the moment, so I had one of her co-workes write a small message from me. She didn't call back again and I was starting to get nervouse... wasn't I good enough? Did she just dump me and didn't borthered calling back? or was she prehaps to bussy?

I wated for some time and finally took a small talk with my job cunsultant about my situation. He told me he would call her, because he knew her very well, and I just waited for him to told me what he had found out. It turned out that the reason to why she didn't call me back was becasue she was bussy trying to find a new Chef baker, becasue the old one had stopped and was going to start as a baking teacher ad food college. But I finally got my date for when I can start down there and I was even told that there MIGHT be an apprenticeship in there for me as well!

But I don't have any way to get down there for now... My bike has either been stolen or thrown out since it was an old rusty and flat bike, haha. So now I have to buy a new one.
Me and Mr. Wonderful anniversary on the 10th of September!
We have been together for 7 years now and I can't imagin a life without him. He means more to me that anything else in this world. I gave him two PDF files with some RP books, which he wanted to badly, and he gave me 4 Disney Movies because I love them and I'm trying to start a Disney collection.

Other than that I've been to the Dragons RP con where I had to pose as a player and a GM for some young boys. I normally write scenarios which are level 2 (the levels indicate how tought or easy a scenario is. It's so that unexperienced players don't end up choosing a super hard scenario) and the kids normally have a great time playing on the, but this time the former Chairman of the RP club asked me to make some level 3 or 4 scenarios for the next con.
It's a HUGE honor for me to know that the experienced players what to try out my scenarios but I am so afraid that they will find the bland and boring. So for now I would much rather play on them, to get to know how they work and later on host my own.

So... this was just a minor update from me to tell you guys what's going on in my life.
Love you and take care!

2011-09-09T22:03:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #23

Summer is slowely heading towards and end and winter and autumn is up next, with it's beautiful colors, cold weather and beautiful snow, a lolita must dress to match the cold months of the year.

Innocent World is now selling some really great new jackets and coats for lolitas and there is actually a jacket which can even fit a girl who doesn't have super thin waist. The jacket is called Night Bear Coat and can even be purchased in a large version which fits waist 91 cm, which makes it ideal for a lolita to wear a little thicker and wamer clothes.

Angelic Pretty has released it's cute new Wonder Story series with two kinds of jsk.

Baby the stars shine bright has nothing new on the wall besides some awesome new autumn boots which you can get i brown, red, black and even golden.

Metmorphose is also planning og releasing some awesome new coats for the upcomming winter season. 4 coats, a jacket and a hood cap will be released sooner and I can't wait to see the colors it will come in.

Vistorian maiden has a new dress and a matching jacket for it. The dress is not really my taste and the jacket could be okay without the tuds on it, but all in all it comes in some wonderful light colors.

2011-08-25T09:49:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout out #22

Wow. As I said before the reason to why I choose to make these updates every other thrusday is simply because I haven't seen that much from the brnad sites. They haven't really been up to somthign lately, thus making it hard to update this site with new and exciting fashion updates.
So I decided to wait for one more week to see if just a few ripples would appear in the surface, and it did :D

Innocent World has this lovely new JSK with roseprint on it called Theresia Rose Jumperskirt. It comes Bordeaux, Chocolate and Blue. Not much to say about the dress other than it looks like every other I.W dresses.

Baby and AATP doesn't really ahve anything new on their program at the moment. Althoug they do have this cute Doll jsk called Flying Love From Juliet. I like the babydoll cut alot, but frankly I can't really wear it because I would look pregnant in it, haha :)

Metamorphose will be releasing a new dress in November based on the anime Hakuoki. I don't really like the dress and I find it really ugly to say it the least. It reminds me sort of somthing my granny would have found nice as a young woman.

Victorian Maiden has this dress for sale on their website and man do I love it! I wan't it so bad but can't fit it, oh the sorrow! The dress itself is called Jewel Ribbon Puff-sleeved set and comes it to varieties, JSK and OP and both comes in that wonderfull sort of dusty peachy color.

2011-08-04T08:41:00.003+02:00

Lolita Shout out #21

Okay guys. I guess I'll be going like this, I'll be updating L.S.O every secound Thursday simply becasue there haven't really been much to talk about, and it seems like there arn't many updates when it comes to the lolita fashion. But i belive that every other week might end up with more to talk about rather than every week.

Innocent World is actually selline alot of stuff right now in form of some few skirts, two dresses and shirts right now, and I want to show you the Acenthus Jsk and the Square Yoke A-line OP which are to lovely dresses. The jsk is very mature and is just a classic look for I.W with the simple OP design and their logo used in the brodery/print design. It's a lovely dress but not really anything speciel. It's design is simple and elegant like you see in most classic lolita dresses and to be frank, maybe a bit bland. The Jsk in the other hand is very cute in the form of that it reminds me of a little girls dress, but without it being sort of too childish, it still keeps the adult apperance to it and the colors also helps it staying more on the adult side rather than the child side. I like the loose A line dresses that, when seen in front, lookes like a loose dress but when you see it from the back you suddenly see the ribbons that can be tied into a bow, and suddenly the dress looks like an average lolita A line dress. Also the have a resevation up for some really great items. The Sailor Collar A-line OP caught my eye and I just adore it so much! In it's black version it reminds me of the classical anime interpretation of a lolita, I don't mean this in a bad way at all, but the dress looks amazing in all the colors you can choose from and again it's a loose A line.

Baby the Stars Shine Bright is out with a new set with a dress and a headbow. It's just a standart lolita look in either black or pink with the old School feel to it when you see it in black. The dress is tied behind the neck which sort of makes it great for summer,since you can wear the dress without anything under it and if it gets a little cold, you can always pull a cute bolero over your shoulders.

Alice and the Pirates also have a new dress on the line. The Operalia Bouquet Jsk in some wonderfull summer colors. And again I fell for the IvoryxBlack version of AATP's dress and I tend to do that but again the BlackxIvory versions of alot of their dresses is really beautiful. The dress have the classic AATP elements on it and I do like that it's still manages to keep a very adult and summery look to it. The print used for the JSK is amazing and I guess that is why I love their dresses. I have a flair for the more antique/mature prints and especially when ir comes to flora prints.

Angelic Pretty also has a new sweet print JSK and OP called Wonder Story Series and it is, as you can imagine, inspired by Alice in Wonderland. But then again Alice in Wonderland is a huge inspirational source for lolitas all over the world, and their isn't a brand yet (of what I know) who hasn't been using Alice sooner or later in their prints. I don't really have much to say as I am not strong on the sweet lolita site, but the print is adorable.

Metmorphose has an amazing new print on the line which I would love to hav a skirt in and I hope I will! It's called the Night of Masquerade series. I especially love the short sleeved dress in navy. The dress is beautiful and it has an amazing design and not only that, the print and the color is just amazing as well. If I could fit it I would buy it along with the socks and the bonnet. I can't wait to see people post outfit wearing this print.

2011-08-02T08:58:00.002+02:00

Vacation is over :C

I'm finally back from my 3 weeks summer vacation and I am still tired but this was greatly needed. I've been craving sleep for so long that I always ended up sleeping on the sofa when I got home every day at 15:00 because I was so tired.
But these last two weeks has been amazing!
During the first week my Hubby's childhood friend came and stayed at out place for about a weeks time, after he had just got home from a familiy vacation in Portugal, sp he was pretty jetlagged when he got here, haha, since he fell alseep on the sofa whilst watching Whose Line Is It Anyway? with me and Mr. Wonderful.

It was a great week where we had some time to show Mikkel (Mr. Wonderful's best friend) around in our little city, we even went to a place called "Universitariummet" which is sort of a small "trial "exhibition where kids could come in and learn all sorts of things. how does the human balance work, how can a ship saile on the water, what is gravity you know that sort of thing. I choose to call it a "Trial" exhibition since it's part of a showcase for what could be build and a newly cleared piece of land in our city, where our VERY small amusement park used to be. People have been thinking on what to place there and this "Universitarium" is one of the proposals from the university students here in Aalborg.

We later went on to showing him the "castle" in the middle of the city and the monastry which is build to keep sound out. You can walk straight from the chaotic city life into the monastry and all sound is silenced. It wass build as a sanctuary for sick and homeless children where they could learn latin, so if you go intothe "Schoolyeard" and look at the monastry walls you can actually see some latin words and names from back then.
We went home again and pretty much used most of the time gaming on the PSII, PSIII, Computer and Xbox 360 yes we are nerds into the bone hahahah!

He wen't home after a weeks time and me and Mr. Wonderful was left to ourselves and just spend the time enjoying each others company and just finally ahve some time to cuddle up (who doesn't love a good cuddle whilst snuggling with the man you love?) Wednesday we went to a town called Hals in Denmark with Mr. Wonderful and his mom where we ate at a Pancake house Called Rasmus Klumps Pandekagehus. Yes you heard correctly they only serve pancakes with all kinds of filling! You can choose from breakfast, Lunch, Dinner and Dessert pancakes and I will say that the Dinner/Lunch pancakes are HUUUGE! Befor you start wonderring who Rasmus is, he is a danish childrensbook character and he is a cute little bear who wears a blue beanie and red overalls with white polkadots and after we have eaten our lunch we just went on walking on the docks and around the town jutch watching people during whatever they now did, eat, talk, walk their dogs, enjoying the sun and so on. We decided to get an icecream and of course it had to be a good ol' Danish icecream, yum yum yum!! :D

Danish Icecream:
3 scoops of Icecream.
"Guf" gooy and sticky meringue with strawberry flavor.
Strawberry jam.
and a "flødebolle" dollop of italian meringue on a little round wafer covered in dark chocolate.

After that we went home and I spend most of my time with Mr. Wonderful befor I had to go back to jobteam again, started yesterday and let's just say that I don't really want to be here. We did, however, get send home yesterday, because an internet cable was tourn during a renovation somewhere in Aalborg, which ment that our net out here didn't work, and we have to use the net to find jobs and so on, so we were sent home early, YEAH!!!

Rasmus Klump^
Isn't he adorable

2011-07-27T01:55:00.002+02:00

I hate myself sometimes.
Not as in I think I am fat and ugly, not at all. But because it's so easy to worry me, and I'm easy to scare and I guess oit comes with me knowing I am a person who can not do much about anything really... and I hate it I donøt know how many times I have worried myself so much I've ended up with an upset stomach instead and an angsty feeling and I hate it big time. Not only am I easy to scare I worry about stuff for a LONG time... I heard in the news for a long time now that a meteor MAY (just MAY) hit earth in 2012 and I got so scared. Would we all be killed? WIll it hurt? What about myt parents and my siblings... my friends? all those thoughts when trough my head and I kept them there for several mounths and I couldn't sleep...

I was actually scared of sleeping because to me it seems like eveything bad comes to live during night time and when it was sunny and nice during mornings, I wasn't scared at all... just at night. I ended up talkignt omy BF alot of times about this subject and I was so amazed over how calm he was and all "But sweetie... We can catually change the course of teh meteor, and not only that, NASA will know anout the meteor several YEARS in adavance so they can prepare so don't be scared" to me it was a mild conviction to my fear and I was calm for a few days and then the fear started gaining in on me again and I had to talk to him again.

It wen't on like that for some months and I wouldn't dare look out a window during night time because what IF i say something weird? Like an U.F.O or a weird light I couldn't explaine? and I would just end up becomming more scared than befor and it wasn't until we saw a news program in TV with a dude who knew about meteors that I finally killed my fear, it was nice to hear about all this from a guy who knew about all this and he said that it wouldn't hit becasue we had all the chances to change it's course, just like my BF had said and I could finally sleep again.

Yes I am a real scardycat and a worryvort and I don't like being since it removes my focus on what's going on NOW and not what will be. If I keep fearing fro everything about my life and my health I will never really live my life and I will just end up one day wondering "where did my life go?" The sad thing about all this is that all the talk about, meteors, volcanos and other things hitting the earth in 2012 mademe worry again. I KNOW all of this won't happy JUST because it's suddenly 2012 and the world is suppose to end then, but I can't help but being annoyed that some way the medias got to me with their "OH NO WE ARE GOING TO DIE! BUY OUR NEWSPAPER TO KNOW MORE " news and I and agry with that... I hope I will find a way for me to handle my constant fear of dying or anything like that because this is just... fustrating.

Is there something you are scared of? A Phobia maybe?
WHat do you do to handle it?

2011-07-23T15:27:00.002+02:00

Even the Gods battle against stupidty.

To all those who have lost family and friends durings the terror event in Norway, i send you my best wishes and my thoughts, I know It won't help the least bit but I can't do more than this. I'm angry and sad over this horrible turn of event and I can't tell you how much I wish the guy who did it truely feel sorry for his act of stupidity.
For Norway and for those who was so brutaly murdered.

2011-06-30T17:34:00.002+02:00

Lolita shout out #20

So what am I going to talk about today?

Innocent world is having a sale on selected item and they have a couple of new stuff up for reservtions and thqat was when My eye caught the Michelle Bustier and Short. It's suppose to give a girl sort of a Ouji fell but when I look at it it reminds me of cigarette girl. You know those old fashion girls with a strap tray around their neck, filled with cigarettes and cigars who sold them to people during shows or in show rooms. I guess it's the mix og the little barette like hat, the color and the overall design of the bustier.

Angelic Pretty are releasing some very adorable stuff! It contains both umbrellas, purses bags and other stuf that is truely ment for a sweet lolita. Now, normally I don't cake much for sweet lolita, I don't hate it I just don't really care for it but still I sort of fell in love with several of their accessorie. I guees it's the bitter-sweet variety i love, the black with the sweet mixed together in what would make a lovely piece of filled chocolate, bitter yet sweet.

Alice and the Pirates has finally released their "Night Fairy Fantasia" print. As some of you may know this print is heavily inspired from the story about a boy who didn't want to grow up, that's right! Peter Pan. The print is amazing and I love the color spec in which you can choose you dress from. Their JSK I, for this print, is after my opinion not the best design I've seen from AATP since it looks sort of cheap and the design in itself is weird. The JSK II on the other hand is really beautiful and you can even get matching socks.

2011-06-23T15:27:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #19

You can really feel that summer ins in the air now. Alot of the lolita brands as we know are starting to put out alot of floral prints, summer cuts in their clothig and sailor themed dresses.

Victorian maiden has two new dresses on the line right now that can both be used as a classic dress, and as cute sailor dresses. The classical marine puff-sleeve dress and classic marine tuck dress are both dresses that can be used fore MORE than just sailor. Bot have the trade of looking like any other sailor lolita dress, but if you coordinate them with the rigth type of accesories the you'll be able to really create many different types of outfits.

Bodyline is usually sort of a 50/50 chance to buy from. You never know if you'll get a really good looking piece of clothing with a fairly decent choise of fabric, or somthing that is horribly made and with fabrics that is mostly Ita lolta worthy. But you can at times be really lucky and prehaps get a dress like this one. The dress itself is really cute and I like that you are able to get it in a rather broad color selection. I will, however, say that the lacing in front looks weird. It almost looks like it has sort of a small bolero over it. Im not the least bit in doubt with that is you buy the dress and ad or remove some detailes from it you could actually end up with a decent sweet or gothic dress.

Alice and the Pirates have some really neta stuff on the website this time, or for me the always do haha. This time I will focus one a pair of shoes they are selling, the Sylphide shoes which comes in black, red, white brown and blue. I have a love for AATP's shoes since they are so diffenrent in the good kind of way than most lolita stores. I love how they are somewhat cure yet very grownup and regal.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright have this very different new dress called Ma Cherie jumper skirt which, compared to may other things seen at baby is in my eyes.... very simple. Almost too simple for baby's and by that I don't mean it's horrible og not worth the brand name (since brand it's norhing more than a name) but just that it seems weird to see a dress this simple comming from Baby.

2011-06-20T12:18:00.002+02:00

Original Vs Replica

Isn't it funny how you sometimes as a kid felt REALLY special if you got a new toy, clothing or bike that nobody else had, and suddenly everyone were gathered around you in a circle in admiration, awe and at some point jealousy. Yes, we have all experienced that feeling and it was a pretty darn good feeling as a kid. But when you are a kid you don't really have focus on anyone other than yourself and I find it sad that this feeling seems to apply to some lolitas. I must admit I felt angry and disgusted over some lolitas who only buy certain rare prints just to be unique, special, one of a kind and the centre of everyone’s jealousy.

What I am talking about is how some lolita feel but-hurt over that their special rare print suddenly isn't special anymore, because someone casual "dared" to make a replica of a brand print. I'm talking about a link to a thread on EGL where one was thinking of making a Vampire Requiem replica and some of the girls couldn't stand the thought of it. Not because it would take money from the brand companies (yeah as IF) but because their special super-awesome-rare print would lose its WOW effect in the rest of the community. Maybe it's just me but I find that VERY childish and egocentric to actually have such a thought.

The dress is not suppose to be your ego boost that feast upon others admiration and frankly the dress is NOT suppose to be a way for you to crawl up the invisible lolita hierarchy. The dress is supposed to be special to you and if it loses its special something because a replica is made, then I honestly don't think you deserve it. The dress is suppose to be something YOU like, a dress you think is special not giving a hoot of what other people think. Aren’t we suppose to choose the lolita clothing we like based on the fact that we like the print and design above the possible credit we get for its rareness?

Also, why is it okay for some GL's that DOM makes sweet prints but as soon as they turn their gaze upon a Gothic print the GL's suddenly starts screaming in terror of the possible replicas of their favourite genre? Come on girls! Get into the wonderful world of lolita and be a little more open-minded when it comes to replicas. For some of us, like me, a replica is a wonderful way to gain a print I love and a dress i can fit, and not just sit in front of my computer screen, sighing because I can’t fit the brand. Give it a chance and live with it, for some of us this MIGHT be the only way we'll ever be able to fit into some dresses and on a last note...
Shouldn't it be the design and not the name that mattered?
What's your view on Replicas vs. Original?

2011-06-16T18:27:00.001+02:00

Lolita Shout out #18

Hi guys, wow as you can see I've been bussy trying to complete my "30 days of Lolita" which I did! WOO and I feel it like some sort of an acomplishmen. Also alot of stuff has happened in my life last month. I've moved from Gardening Service to Jobteam, which is a team that is going to give my some "tools" to be able to hopefully find an internship. I've finally pulled myself together and been to the doctor to get some blod samples taken and some cell tissue. It's a offer that "Kræftens Bekæmpelse" (an orginazation that tries to focus on collecting money for battle against cacer and sharing information about it) where you as a youn woman can come in an get a free chance to see if you got cervical. They take a small cel sample from you uterus and see if there's any change i the cells. Itøs really nice they offer it to youn women so that if there IS some changes they can start treatment, og keep an eye out for it, at a early stage. I was also suppose to get some blood samples taken, and let me just say that I have a terrible fear of needles. Not the whole idea of getting medici shot into y body or blood taken from it, but the whole thought of the needel inside my arm just freaks me out. And I've been afraid of needles ever since I was very small which is werid cindering I've been to hospitals and doctors almost every damn week. I've always been a very weak kid, not in the pshycological sense but in the physical sense. I am from natures side born with an incomplete immunesystem which makes me prone to getting sick faster and I have a harder time getting over it again. But being used to getting samples from every time I was at the doctors place just have done annything for my fear agains needles, it stills thrives this day... But today was a HUGE personal conquest for me. For the first time in 24 years I wasn't afraid of getting pricked by a needle. It was a lot less painful as I remember it and I didn't eve contord once. Some of you may think that this is just me being a whiny little girl, but for m this was truely somthing big. But I'm done with the test and the answers will soon be send to me so I can see what they said. The blood samples was to see if I had less D-vitamin in my blood, to see if I were more prone to get thrombosis and to see if I had some Cholesterol in my blood. And to those of you who remeber me talking about my mom, she is felling way better now that ever. It seems like this operation actually helped her but she is still a little sceptical about the whole ordeal. I just hope that everything will turn out better this time. And today I will be updatig L.S.O, the reason to why I haven't be doing it lately is mostley because of the challenge, but also because I haven't really been able to find anything new in the lolita fashion world. But do not frown little ones, for I have found some nice new stuff for you all!

Metamorphose has released a new cute print! Yes I know this is sort of old news, but I still felt like sharring this with you. It's called fairy Tale Series. I've grown a certain fancy to the Fairy Tale Lace-up pinafore dress and actually both in balck AND white. The collection comes in three colors only. Lavender, off-white and black and the Lavender is sort of a darker lavender that what I usually see in lolita fashion.

Baby The Star Shine Bright is starting their cute summer collection with a lot of cute and very simple dresses. It's a good design they carry during the summer months since most lolita dresses are way to hot to wear. They seem to make their dresses less "flashy" and with fabrics that are ment to be worn during summer moths, without feeling you are wearing a lacy sauna. Amongst the dresses I would say that the Gingham Rumine JSK is a wonderfull summer dress and it can even be used for coutry lolita as well.

Innocent World hasen't been good at updatig their collection lately, and as I've said befor it's almost like they are in a sort of hiatus periode. They don't produce as much prints or designs as they used to and theyr dresses haven't really had the WOW-factor as their previous collections. I will draw my focus to one dress, the angel tired onpiece. Again this is old news or the dresses just get sold really quick because a lot of the things I see on their website tend to get sold withing a flash. But this dress is rather cute. It's subtle an yet it has a print that isn't overwhealming for the dress in general. The print is nice but prehaps a little boring compared to what we KNOW I.W is able to produce. Also I.W is selling some really great Lucky Packs. I love I.W's lucky packs since you tend to get a lot of stuff for your money. Alone their lucy pack B (which is the cheapest) contains way more than any other brand would fill their cheapest L.P's with. Take a look at them and If any of you order any of the pack please contact me I'm dying to know what they contain.

2011-06-13T18:05:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 30 - a photo take of yourself today and 3 good things that's happend over the last 30 days.

I can't post a picture of myself, which Ive told several times now, but I can tell you three good things that have happend ove rthese last 30 days.

1) I was finally able to get enugh cash for both mt new bento stuff AND some storage place for me and my hubby's office room.

2) I've grown a certain detemination that I SHALL go to France with my Hubby and some very dear friends of me, just us in an awesome apartment (prehaps) enjoying the culture, the food and the lolita stores, MWAHAHAH!

3) I will finally move from the gardening service to the jobteam, which is a place where I'll be learning how to write a god job application and hopefully GET me that damn internship, haha :)

2011-06-12T11:58:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 29 - A picture of a Lolita you would like to meet for real.

!Her Curiouse Elegance, Raegan!

Picture taken by her farther and borrowed from her blog.

2011-06-11T12:30:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 28 - A picture of the perfect Lolita location.

Picture can be found HERE

2011-06-10T12:48:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 27 - One song that fits your favorite lolita style.

Classic Lolita - Pachebel's Canon in D major.
Gothic Lolita - Voltaire's Graveyard Picnic.

2011-06-09T09:33:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 26 - Your facebook profil picture.

Guess where the picture is borrowed from XDD

2011-06-08T12:40:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 25 - Your favorite lolita themed artwork.
I don't really think I have any. I love the artwork that is often seen in A.P website. Yeah I know the girls look sort of retarded or like they have zero idea of where they are, but it's beautiful artwork non the least :)

2011-06-07T12:36:00.003+02:00

30 days og Lolita

day 24 - A picture of you from a meet.

from left to right: Me (in my A.P dress), Sabrina, Thea and Mette :DKidly borrowed from Sascha (Zarsu)

2011-06-06T11:17:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 23 - a picture fo your handwriting.
Why does everthing have to be pictures with these kinds of "xxx days of somthing?"
I don't have any since I don't go araound taking pictures of my own handwriting since I find it rather ugly :/

2011-06-05T10:32:00.001+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 22 - A picture of your room.
Again I don't have a camera so I can't take a picture of my room... Plus I don't HAVE a room I actually live in an apartment XD

here's a picture of a dream home of mine.

2011-06-04T09:45:00.000+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 21 . your favorti fictional Lolita.
I don't have any.

2011-06-03T10:59:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 20 - a picture of a Lolita friend
Dorte (Blue hair) and Astrid (Pink hair)
I consider these two girls my friends and just look at them!
Aren't they amazing lolis :D
Not only are they really good lolis, they are also very modest, kind and not the least bit snobbish ^^

Kindly borrowed from Zarsu.dk

2011-06-02T13:43:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 19 - what's in your make-up bag?

Mascara (brown)
Eyeshadow in brown, green and golden colors.
Eyeliner (black)
Browpencil.
Rogue in light pink.
Eyelash curler.
Pencilsharpener.
Foundation.
Concealer.
Make-up brushes.
A little bottle of perfume (Calvin Klein)

2011-06-01T12:28:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

Day 18 - A picture of your favorite Lolita style?

♡♡♡Classic Lolita♡♡♡

2011-05-31T12:19:00.001+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 17 - what do you want more then anything right now?
a nice hot and yummy dinner QAQ

2011-05-30T16:10:00.003+02:00

30 days of Lolita

Day 16 - your outfit for the day.

I don't have one, since I only wear Lolita during special events such as meet-ups, surtain parties and cons. But here's a picture of my last outfit i wore during our regular Lolita meet-up.

Picture can be found at Zarsu.dk

Outfit rundown:
shirt: Bodyline.
Skirt: home made.
Stockings: off brand.
Headbow: made for me by Zarsu.
Shoes: old Mary Janes found at a local thrift store.
Jewelry: bodyline.
Umbrella: bodyline and borrowed from Zarsu.

2011-05-29T10:58:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 15 - Post a picture if your last Lolita purchase
WOW! Uhm. sorry I won't be posting anything because the last time I ordered somthing for my lolita wardrobe was in a grouporder, and I got a lot of stuff.

two shirts.
1 watch in form of a necklace.
1 sun umbrella.
two rings.
1 pair of socks.

2011-05-28T10:12:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 14 - A picture of your dream item

Queens Coach JSK Black and Ivory.

2011-05-27T12:12:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 13 - Picture of your favorit sweets.

Assorted chocolates :D~~

2011-05-26T08:26:00.003+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 12 - Picture of yourself befor Lolita came into your life.

Hahaha I look horrible XD
I never where a make-up girl plus I'm using self-tanner here X'D
Oh dear me, hahah. I was so thin back then, lol.

2011-05-25T07:52:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

Day 11 - One day in your lolita life in pictures.
Oh gawd. Why is there always a photochallanegen in these kinds of blog entries?
Sorry but I hardly HAVE any pictures of myself in lolita, and the only time I get my pictures taken is when the adorable Zarsu takes pictures of me.
So sorry guys, I don't have a minor photoshoot of a Day in my Lolita life :/

2011-05-24T19:15:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

Day 10 - what's in your bag
Mobilephone, deodorant, roll-on deodorant, a little washing cloth, my purse, astma medicin, pinkillers (in case of headache), freshmints (if breath gets bad), lipgloss (since I often have very and cracked lips) and my buss pass.

2011-05-23T12:26:00.002+02:00

30 days of lolita

Day 9 - 10 things you will never do in Lolita.

1) Have sex in it.

2) Go to a bacholerette party with it.

3) Wear it to any family party.

4) Wear it for a job interview.

5) Go to a heavy metal concert in it.

6) Wear those weird bear/bunny hats.

7) Wear OTT sweet.

8) Use half bonnets.

9) wear lolita without my bloomers.

10) Drink in lolita.

2011-05-22T22:28:00.005+02:00

30 days of Lolita

Day 8 - 10 things that inspire you for lolita

1) Marry Me - Emilie Autumn

2) Shalott - Emilie Autumn

3) Miss Lucy Had Some Leeches - Emilie Autumn

4) Carol Of The Bells - Celtic Woman version

5) Alice of Human Sacrifice - Vocaloid

6) Walking In The Air - Chloë Agnew

7) Oh Come All Ye Faithful - Celtic Woman

8) Unwritten - Natasha Bedingfield

9) Graveyard Picnic - Voltaire

10) I'm Not Edible - American McGee's Alice

2011-05-21T22:54:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

Day 6 – 10 things you can’t live without in lolita.

1) JSK's

2) Bonnets.

3) Classic prints.

4) Suitcase like bags

5) Cameos

6) Stockings.

7) Mary Janes.

8) Watches.

9) Victorian inspired jewelry.

10) Hats.

Day 7 – 10 people who inspire your lolita style.

1) Sascha

2) Tenna

3) Astrid

4) Dorte

5) Classic Lolita models.

7) Mana (when I was a teenager, LOOOL)
And I son't have any more than that. Honestly I have NO clue what all the "famous" lolita models are called.

2011-05-19T17:29:00.002+02:00

Lolita shout out #18

I will start out with Bodyline. ZOMGWTFBBQ! BODYLINE?! But but! That's not even buraduuuuuu. Not it isn't but bodyline will still, in my humble opinion, be a good starter alternative for one who isn't able to pay a fortune for brand clothing used or new. But It seems like some of the new dress at B.L actually look like somthing that would be worth having. B.L has been know to make alot of really cheap stuff and most of it have also shown that they aren't on the high end of the price scale. I don't mean this as BL is a bad thing, but just that if one really want's to buy from them, they should look out for things that don't too ita. Like this dress For a BL dress this is really well made and looks pretty darn good! It often is like this with BL that most of their "own" dresses actually end up being somthing you would want to own. I have a skirt and several shirst from BL myself, so I will recommend taking a look at this dress :D

Angelic Pretty hasn't really been making alot these last couple of weeks, which has supriced me a great deal considered that they had a "print Streak" a couple of weeks ago where they pretty much lunched a new print every week. But now It seems they have gone on a minor hiatus with the print making and instead they have put a little focus on petties and some very cute boleros.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright on the other had did give my a very big surprise by making this dress here. I won't try to wrap this up in cotton and pretend is okay, but this dress horrified me. The dress itself could be cute but for me it's a notorious lace monster and I didn't expect that, considering that Baby usually make pretty decent stuff. Im a little dissapointed over this dress since it seems to be way to cosplayish for me to really like it. Even without the shawel it stills looks to OTT. I'm not waying it looks cheap just that it looks too cosplayish.

2011-05-19T12:22:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita.

day 4 - 10 items from you wishlist.

1) Queesh Coach Jsk (Black and ivory)

2) Trawberry Jam Highwaist JSK (red)

3) Luna Stripe Halter JSK (Milk tea and chocolate)

4) Clara OP (blue and beige)

5) Chandeliere OP (navy and black)

6) Irongate OP (black and white)

7) Vampire Requiem corset JSK (either in black or red)

8) Treasure Box II.

9) Present Box mini hat (black)

10) Princess Drop Chandelier shoes (black)

2011-05-18T17:08:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 4 - 10 kinds of food you like

1) Tiramisu.

2) Lasagna.

3) Cheesecake.

4) Spaghetti Cabonara.

5) My mother in laws tomato soup.

6) Chocolate mousse.

7) Wild mushroom risotto.

8) Home made rustic pizza.

9) Swedish sausage dish.

10) Oven baked plums with crumbled dough.

2011-05-17T13:18:00.002+02:00

30 days of Lolita

day 3 - 10 things you hate in Lolita

1) The brand whores. I hate that some people see brand as the only true thing to wear as a lolita.

2) The shoes arn't always comfortable in Lolita and you tend to get rather sore feet.

3) The petties, I just hate them!

4) That a LOT of the brand designs are WAY to small.

5) Brand is rather expensive.

6) That people tend to see Lolita as somthing sexual such as a fetish or age-play.

7) Cosplay lolita, why do popel always fall into that trap?

8) That brand shops aren't to find outside Japan, besides U.S.A and France.

9) The lolis who hate chubby/fat lolitas.

10) How long time it sometimes takes to get a costum made dress made... yikes.

2011-05-16T12:23:00.002+02:00

30 days of lolita

day 2 - 10 things you love in lolita

1) It makes me feel like a princess.

2) I love how one always end up looking in lolita, wether it's a beautiful princess or a Regal young lady.

3) The dresses and how much effeort people often put into sewing their own designs.

4) I get the chance to wear som lovely wigs, my own hair is so thin and boring to look at.

5) The compliments I get from my BF :D

6) That my mother likes lolita as well.

7) The friends I've gotten trough Lolita.

8) Lolita made me want to start sewing my own clothing.

9) Some of the stunningly beautiful protraits taken by lolitas in their sunday finest.

10) A good reason for me to start collecting a lot af lovely victorian stuff :D

2011-05-15T12:22:00.002+02:00

Give more blogs and 30 Day Lolita challenge start!

Again I shall start in a "do this over a periode og days and tell us bout yourself" challenge ans THIS is WILL complete. It's about Lolita I belive it's time you knew about me as a Lolita and who I am. If you want to try this yourself, here's the link

Okay day 1 - 10 things bout your lolita bubble

1) I may not who it but I am more of a tom boy eventhough I like lolita very much. But I don't wan't to wear the bouyish styles of lolita so I've chosen EGL and Classic since I think they compliment my need for feeling feminen.

2) I actually don't really like OTT sweet it's like it's the only thing people wan't to wear and to be honest I think they it's starting to a little outof control. I don't MIND sweet lolita just OTT sweet with their weird bear hats, overly useage of alice bows and stickers on their faces. For me OTT sweet is more like trying to be too childish than being an adorable girl.

3) I'm always scared of being a lolita in front of experienced lolitas since I fear that I might not be good enoug. Yes, sadly a thing that every girl (lolita or not) have a battle with, it's the urge of feeling like you belong somwhere.

4) The first lolita blog I ever came across was Her Curious Elegance by Raegan. An amzing blog since most that she blogs about is somthing I can really relate to. She is an amazing girl and I think you should take a look at her blog.

5) Eventhough I am a lolita I don't waste my time looking at egl_secrets. I really hate that since, most of it is jyst bithing about other lolitas and other frilly butts trying to feel superior to those who can't live up to the name of "Lolita"

6) I love wearing my blommers with a cute top or a t-shirt, they are the best realxing wear I have at home and when I get sick or just tired, and want to chill-laz on the soda, I put on my blommers and just fell relaxed.

7) I don't mind replicas/copies/rip-offs whatever you call them. For me it's not about the name, I couldn't care less if it's I.W, A.P BtssB or AATP. I know this may chock many of you and a lot of you may be thinking "LAAAAAWL! frilly B!tch be crazy!" and honest I can only say that it's not that important to me. I just want to have the desingns that the brands make and I can't fit into alot of it. I might be able to sometimes fit into I.W JSK and dresses, but why pay for a real I.W when I can get a replica of it for fewer cash and that fits me?

8) I normally don't wear petties or only use one. I can't wear more because I have so muc junk-in-the-trunk so if i use more than one I end up looking like my butt is WAY bigger that int already is.

9) I don't like any j-music bads really. I don't care that much for J-music at all. I do listen to Vocaloid and anime music but I'm not a fan of any real bads. I was as a teenager but now I've sort of grown out of it, and I can't stand the feeling of that you HAVE to be a fan of at least ONE j-fashion bad to be a true Rori~chan. Most lolis I know like Dir.Grey Gackt and things like that, I would much rather listen to Black Sabbath, Metallica and stuff like that, yeah i SOOOO rori.

10) I am really bad at shopping for Lolita. I always forgett to by things such as jewelry, boleroes, Cutsews and so. I always end up buying only a dress and a cute headress/bow and I then always end up with just an uncomplete set of clothing XD

2011-05-12T13:03:00.000+02:00

Lolita shout out #17

Baby the stars shine bright has a new print out soon called Night Fairy Fantasia. The cute thing about this print is that it is inspired by Peter Pan's flight to neverland and you can clearly see it. I would love to own the Navy version of it, since Babys Navy color is often a very rich dark blue.

Angelic pretty are selling some adorable new sailor lolita socks in a vast variaty of colors! From the classic A.P pink to common Black and White. Also they've got some new cutsews that I don't really care for. Don't like the design of them to be honest.

PUTUMAYO has a very cute ned t-shirt for the casual lolita.

Wow this was a very short an boring update, sorry... There haven't been anything to talk about in the lolita fashion world lately. Or maybe it's just me who is really bad at finding news. Btw! If any of you know the comic Tiny Kitten Teeth, who wouldn't want a print with either Hopscotch or TigerButtah? I would kill for a cute skirt or JSK with either of the two on it :DHopscoths is owned by Becky and Frank (creators of Tiny Kitten Teeth)

2011-05-06T14:25:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #16

Sorry for the missing blog entry yesterday I was really bussy doing all kinds of stuff there. Hand to give and interview for a Danish newspaper about being in activations and how we fell about it. The municipality in which I live have a thing called "useful activation" were people without work, internships or in between jobs can be a part of and earn som cash that way and still have something to do. What we do where I am is gardening service. We help old or handicaped people who can't take care of their own garden and we get paid for it as well. I really like it, it's better than sitting at home for several months dong nothing but surfing the net and watching day time television. This is a great way for me to get som exercise, fresh air, meet a lot of very sweet old people and actually feel like im giving people somthing in retur, plus I return home tired (the good way) and happy :D
If the pay was a little better I might have thought of staying, but this is just a minor hiatus until I find myself an internship plus it helps me financially.

Okay movin on to the lolita part, uuuuuuuuh!

Angelic Pretty has releashed a very cute pinkXblack Yukata with matching headbow and purse. The lace collar is detachable. I will belive that it's a little utraditional, since most yukatas are normally made with traditional japanese prints. I woldn't own one myself since I think it's a little too.... well brand whore-ish to won a brand Yukata instead of a lovely traditional one.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright have a new cute collection on their page, the Versaille Rose collection which is very grown up compared to what Baby normally have for sale. I also find it funny that it almost bears the same name as on of I.Ws collections.

Metamorphose has a awesome new summer collection that is imspired from the 1950s Rockabilly with the polkadots and vinyl records. One of their dresses is really cute a truely inspired by the 1950s girls dress. The rest of it is more traditional lolita.

And on a final note.
I've started saving up for the Strawberry Jam collection from I.W. A friend of mine is going to Japan next year and I've asked her to bring me home the Strawberry Jame collection (socks, high waist jsk, mini hat and socks, plus a bag and purse) and a Jsk/headbow set from Baby :D
OH i can't wait for it!!!

2011-05-02T13:22:00.003+02:00

Cry me a river, will you?

Have you ever know, or heard, of someone whu just couldn't understand that they were wrong? No matter how many people screamed it to then they were sure that it was the rest of the crowd that was wrong and not themself in person? You have? Well then you know how damn annoying and mindbuggeling stupid some of them sound when they talk.
I've recently experienced a girl on our danish j-fashion forum who posted a picture of her first official lolita outfit on our website. Needless to say it wasn't the best lolita outfit, mostly because it was pretty cosplay-ish so we told her that she could prehaps remove some og the bows a laces to make it look less ita, you know, give her a friendly push in the right direction.... But apprently we were all wrong on our view of her outfit, was not cosplay lolita since we had clearly misunderstod what cosplay lolita was, and that she knew what it was. Several other people tried to tell her that she was wrong about her interpertation of what cosplay lolita was. Again she denied and made it sound like she was right and all the other of us were wrong wrong WRONG. She had studied, researched and worn alot Lolita so we were NOT to tell her that she was wrong since she clearly knew everything there was to know about lolita. Persistant aren't we, little missy? But I had to write my entry to her and tell her that I would stand behind the others opinion on the outfit and that she should prehaps listen to what they had to say, when a bounch of people tells you that you are wrong there's probably somthing about, don't you think?

But yes, these kind of people annoys the hell out of me, it's almost as the feel like that were clearly can't see how perfect she is and how she possible couldn't improve her looks more, now I'm not saying I'm a perfect lolita, hell I have a LOOOOONG way to go befor I'm even remotly satisfied with my lolita wardrobe, but these kind of people just don't realize it when they are wrong. They will make up excuses as to why and how they are wrong and trying to turn the whole situation around so that it's them who are the victems of our horrible accusations and lies.
whatever, if you can't handle the the time, don't do the crime.

How do you feel about these kind of people and do you actually know one?

2011-04-28T16:57:00.001+02:00

Lolita shout out #15

Innocent World have the cutest strawberry print on the line right now. It cintains of two cute jumpers, two headresses, socks and a cute little hat.

Baby the stars shine bright has a huge selection on umbrellas now and there is pretty much one that could fit every sub genre of lolita.

Metamorphose has a cure new summer collection out right now called Fruit Punch Soda Series which, like everything else in Meta, can be found in various dresses and skirts.

Victorian maiden has some adorable floral patterns right now which will be perfect for this summer. They've also started introducing long skirts and dresses, also in the cure floral print.

2011-04-21T08:56:00.002+02:00

Lolita shout out #14

I will say I am sorry guys. This is going to be a rather short entry this time, but it's not that I don't want to write a long one, it's just that there isn't really anything to write about this time. All the links I have from different lolita brands and ofbrands seems to be rather still in there productions of new things.

Innocent World have some new stuff, and a lot of it plus they also have som wonderful new dresses that will work perfectly for a really down toned lolita. Take a look, you might just find something for spring/summer.

Qutieland have some new items from Dear Celine and Rose Melody. They have some headdresses and stuff like that that will work wonders on a summer/spring lolita outfit.

Juliette et Justine have som really cute and simpel dresses if your looking for somthing to wear during summer that isn't too flashy. And a lot of them don't need any shirts or anything, so you don't end up feeling like you're going to die in the summer heat :)

2011-04-15T12:42:00.002+02:00

Lolita Shout out #13

Sorry that I forgot to update yesterday, but I wsa skind of bussy watching the two new royals twins christening. I don't suppor the royal family but I can't but being proud over that Denmark have the oldest monarchy in the world! Yes we have and I'm so proud becasue it is a royal family with a LONG and hectic history. But TADAAAAH look what I was able to sniff up.

Angelic pretty just made a new print in time for easter. It's called Sheep Garden and has, logically enough, cute little sheep/lambs on it which will be perfect for a cute easter cordination. The print is cute but the dresses looks like any other AP dress.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright has just made a new fairytale print called Scent of Rapunzel. The dress is going to be in two differen kinds of JSK and one OP and the colors to choose from are wonderfull. I have always had a fancy eye to the fairytale prints and one of my dream prints are actually Little Red Ridinghood, and this is saying alot since I mostley like solid colored dresses.

Metamorphose has an entire NEW collection on the way. A huge collection of dresses, skirts, shirts AND accessories! I won't trell what there will be in the collection but instead just smick the link in here and let you see what they have istall. I must admit that I am somewhat worried over their upcomming collection that will be a mix of macross frontierxMeta and VocaloidXMeta. I'm scared that it might end up being way to cosplayish for Meta, and Meta do have a reputation of sometimes making a Hit and Miss collection.

It's okay If you think that this is sort of a fast solution entry, and It may be just that but my entries will become alot shorter since my Blogspot (as said befor) sort of ruins the text on the blog when I try to post pictures in here.

2011-04-11T17:10:00.002+02:00

Lolita shout out #12

The only thing I can say is sorry. I fell sick again, thanks to my hubby, who infected me with the cold once more! So hopefully I’ll be done with the sickness for now and won’t catch anything for a loooong time. And also I didn’t feel like posting anything for a long time, not even my “30 days of anime” due to the sickness and just the lack of motivation for it. Sorry guys, so sorry.

I don’t know how many of you follow my blog every time I update (I don’t have any idea since people hardly write any comments, ahah) but I will say that I am ever so sorry for not updating in case any of you guys out there were waiting for it. There’s just been a lot of stuff going on around me right now and my mom is going to get operated again. She stared having back pains again even after they gave her the supporter in the back. The doctors believe that it might have something to do with some old screws she has in her back from when I was a kid. It might be those who give her pain due to they might be putting pressure on her nerves in the lower back. So she told the doctors that THIS is the last time she is going to get under the knife in order to help her get better. She’s been doing that from ever since I was a kid and it took them years to find a good solution to her problem, the supporter that is operated and screwed into her backbone, and when everything suddenly started to go downhill again, we were SO scared that it was the supporter that didn’t work as it was suppose to, but then the doctors told us that it might be the old screws that caused the problems, I was relived and I do hope that everything will be okay when she get them out. But let’s not dilly dally in all the sadness and so. It’s spring time!

Yiay and the weather has finally changed in Denmark. It’s up to 16°C during day times and that means that everybody is firing up their grills to BBQ, haha. That’s how it is in Denmark, long cold winters, short hot summers, so as soon as it starts to get a little warm here we throw off all our clothes and sit in the sun.

But moving on to the Lolita part of it all.
Innocent World is currently planning on releasing these lovely dresses and I must say that the Eleonore Jumperskirt is just way to cute! It’s so summery and very elegant. I particularly like the Café Au Lait colored version it reminds me of some of the Old Danish summer dresses from the 1930-50 and the tartan print is to die for. I do like tartan print and it seems to be a very versatile print that can be used all year around.

Baby The Stars Shine Bright are releasing a lot of adorable boleros and cardigans for the summer season and of cause some of them carry the theme of Alice in Wonderland and Card games, you know like Baby usually do. There isn’t much to say about the cardigans and boleros other than they look like every other of its siblings; sorry that’s just how I feel about it. But they are cute and some even look like they will be able to fit a girl who is plus size.

Mary Magdalene has released a new dress that is just wonderful. It’s so simple, elegant and very “adult” like for a Lolita dress. The print of the dress is to die for and I don’t know what it is about it, but the simplicity of the dress makes it look unique and very summery.

Sorry but there won't be any pictures this time since my blogspot has a tendecy to screw up the text if I try to add my pictures, so you'll have to klick the link names :D

2011-04-01T09:12:00.001+02:00

Day 20 - Favorite shoujo anime

Candy candy

2011-03-31T17:23:00.003+02:00

Lolita Shout Out #11

Innocent world are now selling some charity sets. You’ll be able to by packaged A and packaged B.
A contains a skirt, a bolero or blouse + some goods. B contains jsk bolero or blouse + some goods.
It’s a nice initiative from I.W’s side but I can’t help but feeling like 5% of the money earned from this charity event will be send to disaster areas. It’s great they DO something but 5% just seems so low and lousy, but still it might end up with a lot of money from it. Take a gander at it, I bet you might get something really good :D

And:
Day 19 - Mandatory swimsuite post

It was hard finding a picture that didn't scream to the gods about fucking lolicon （￣へ￣）

2011-03-30T12:23:00.001+02:00

Day 18 - Something Moe

Girl eating a melon pan, FUCKING CUTE!

2011-03-29T12:26:00.004+02:00

Day 15 - Post a cute Neko-girl
- No. I don't like neko girls so here's a pudding instead.

Day 16 - post a kigurumi cosplay of your favourite anime character
- Here's chopper 8D

Day 17 - Favourite tsundere
- Victorique from GoSick

2011-03-26T10:19:00.001+01:00

30 Days Of Anime, day 14

Day 14 - current (or most recent) anime wallpaper

2011-03-25T09:50:00.004+01:00

30 Days Of Anime, day 12 and 13 (sorry I forgot)

Day 12 - An ecchi picture from your favorite series

Yiay Full Metal Alchemist, Winry is fucking kick ass ^^

Day 13 - Cosplay of your ‘waifu’ or Husbando'

Izumi from FMA

Picture ca be found here

2011-03-25T09:01:00.005+01:00

Lolita Shout Out #10

Over the last couple of months I’ve been looking at the different lolita brand every day to look for new updates, news and so on. And I always love when they put up new stuff on their different shops. Lately Baby has started to sort of go back to Old School Lolita. They’ve started selling a lot of black and white stuff with a very down to earth tone. I was lucky to see that they are now selling a wonderful O.S (old school) JSK WITH a headbow for ¥7,350 (479Dkk, €64,28 and $90,82) which I find very cheap for at set AND it’s a brand name. I don’t know about the shipping yet since I’ve never tried ordering from a brand site, so I have no idea of what the shipping cost is right now. I’m trying to save a little money for this JSK set and hopefully I’ll get it VERY soon. And this will be my VERY first brand new brand dress, which I can actually fit for once!

While we are on the subject of Baby, they have also released a new print called Chained berry memoir and consist of an adorable and very nice looking cherry print. As mention before Baby has surely started making it a wonderful option to choose from several different colors from their dress and this is indeed one of them. The dress can be found in up to 5 different colors. I find the Milky Tea color appealing to my taste but I will however say that I find that the black version tends to be a little off whilst the red, blue and pink is just classic baby. It also comes in to different varieties both are JSKs. One is with and adorable little lace collar and the other is just an ordinary JSK design with shoulder straps and both can be found with the 5 different color choices.

As most of us know Meta released their sailor collection along with this new dress. The Dobby striped with long sleeves. I do like this dress for its simpelness and very elegant siluette. And Meta is sort of a gamble in what they create. It’s either a hit or a miss and this is defiantly a hit. The dress is very elegant and adult for Lolita so it would do nicely for a classic and gothic Lolita but again It has that long button row in front. Some of my readers know I can’t stand that in a dress but it’s different with this one. On this dress it’s not as eye catching as one of the other dress I review for you and it looks sort of nice on this one. I guess its because the dress is a solid colored one which makes the button row something I could live with, were I ever to by this.

Moving on to Innocent World, what? You thought you wouldn’t hear about it anymore? Well fooled you didn’t I. I.W made a chocking choice in my world and made a very different dress from what they normally do. They made a very Victorian inspired dress. I mean VERY Victorian inspired dress and the dress is funny enough called Victorica Dress. It’s almost sold out and the dress is not what I would have imagined I.W to make. I would have seen it more as a Meta dress, which tends to expanded over a vast variety of j-fashion genres, instead of I.W who mainly focus on classic. The dress tends to remind me of Babys upcoming fashion which tends to lean towards a very Hime like look in their dresses clearly does the same. It has the princess sleeves and the very rococo looking siluette and just in general reminds me a lot of a princess dress. I find it somewhat weird that they suddenly decided to make this very covered dress when you think of that summer is just around the corner, compared to what they were releasing earlier these months. Don’t get me wrong the dress is absolutely stunning but it’s just somehow not I.W. It comes I three colors with detachable sleeves and matching socks, bonnet and shoes for this particular dress. I would recommend you take a look at their website for further information about the dress, and I would suggest you buy it quickly since most of them are already bought.

2011-03-24T13:22:00.005+01:00

"Daddy I want THAT dress!!"

As a child I remember my parents not being super rich nor poor (it’s hard to be REALLY poor in Denmark) but it wasn’t like we could get new really fancy clothes whenever we wanted, and the most of the toys we got where cheap toys. But you know what? I loved it. I didn’t really asked for anything fancy or brand like a girl on our street did. She was also a child with two siblings (like me) and she was the youngest so of course she was spoiled skinless by her parents. I remember her having all the spice girls Barbie dolls, which were very popular in the 90’s, and some brand toys and she always bragged about how her parents got her this and that and I remember not caring at all about that. We were a simple and humble family, we got presents for Christmas and on our birthdays and we never really felt like we missed something. When I look back I see my childhood as being safe and full of richness in form of loving parents, good friends and a good education so I get angry when I see spoiled kids now.

But it’s not only kids I refer to her, but lolitas as well. I talked to one of my fellow lolitas the other day and I told her about A girls blog I came across, where she regularly post about her new brands she buys. It’s pretty often she does it and I kept on thinking to myself, where the hell did she get THAT kind of money from? Most of it is second hand, but that’s still pretty expensive so I asked her about this girl. She told me that she gets all he clothing and so on paid by her dad. WHAT? How spoiled can this girl be? Does she even KNOW the value of money? But the first thing that came to me was “how will she ever learn how to survive when she moves out to live alone?” my friend just said coldly “well her dad will properly still continue to pay for her lifestyle I guess” and I was choked. Okay so I got a different outlook on money. I came from a family where we really servile our budget to make sure we always had some cash for emergencies, so we were thought that money is something to be spend wisely and not throw out like that.

Nellie Olsen

Now don’t get me wrong. I don’t mind parents getting their kids some nice Lolita stuff, if they have the money for it, as a present for their birthdays or Christmas. But every time the kid opens his/hers mouth? No way! That is just being spoiled and that is NOT okay. Maybe it’s because I get this mental image of the parents being bullied into buying the clothes, by their kids… sort of like Nellie Olsen form “The little house on the prairie”.

Isn’t it far more nice to get your dream clothing as a present for you birthday and Christmas, knowing your parents gave it to you, because they saved money for it? Or by getting a job and saving every penny for “that” dress. I had a little job as a waiter at a bar to earn come cash for a beautiful A.P dress. It was second hand but when I had the money and got the dress shipped to my home I was over happily. I never felt so glad of being able to save up to something this nice and I can’t help but being a little angry over that girls who get everything they want might just end up not being able to enjoy the feeling of getting something you’ve wanted for SO long, if you just get everything by asking for your parents credit card. I mean can’t you remember the FIRST time you actually earned enough to get that first dream dress you had? And that over ecstatic feeling of happiness when the packed arrived? I was like THIS was far better that Christmas and your birthday merged together. That feeling is just priceless and you actually end up feeling you deserved it, after hours and hours of working and so.

I hope you all understand my…rather confusing and very badly written blog entry this time, I just feel like I needed to let a little steam out over those spoiled lolis out there, and I hope you don’t envy them. Trust me, earning your reward is far better than just getting it for doing nothing. SO what If you don’t get a new dress every week? Good things comes to those who are patient and if you patiently save up for your dream clothing you’ll get a much betting feeling of getting your new dress, skirt, acc whatever :D

2011-03-23T12:42:00.001+01:00

30 days of anime, day 11

Day 11 - Favourite mech series
Non... really I can't stand Mech series and try to avoid them as best as possible.

2011-03-22T12:33:00.002+01:00

30 days of anime, day 10

Day 10 - Favorite slice of life Anime
- I don't really watch any "Slice fo Life" anime's since I think they tend to be rather bland. But I do like Azumanga Daioh :)
and it's really the only S.O.L anime I like.

2011-03-21T17:47:00.001+01:00

30 days of anime, day 9

Day 9 - Saddest Anime scene
- omg this! I swear every time I see it i cry. It's just so fucking sad. This is a spoiler from Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood. If you haven't seen the anime or read the manga, don't watch Ö
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPReNg8Xx4M

2011-03-20T16:46:00.001+01:00

30 days of anime, day 8

Day 8 - Most epic scene ever
- This scene ;D
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyvRpU0ztFY
It's just the way it's animated taht makes it SO dynamic AND epic :D

2011-03-19T21:06:00.000+01:00

30 days of anime, day 7

Day 7 - Favorite Anime couple
- Hmm... I know this is over used but.. Edward and Winry ;D

2011-03-18T20:07:00.002+01:00

What's on the other side?

Life is beautiful isn’t it? There’s so much to see and so much to learn when you grow up and one day your old, you look back on your life and you know you had a great run. But I must admit I’m scared. I love being 24 and still have many years before I’ll be six feet under but I can’t help but being somewhat afraid of dying. It’s normal… I know it is but I really that I’ve reached an age where I’m suddenly aware of that I’m not immortal and that one day I’m here anymore. As a kid you didn’t think about that. The worst thing you could experience was when someone didn’t invite you to their birthday party or your friend suddenly said “we’re not friends anymore” and now I worry about death. Trust me it’s not a wonderful thing to worry about. But why AM I so worried? I guess it’s because I’m egocentric in some way… the whole thought of the world not having ME anymore is horrid and it scares me restless. And Restless is what I have become after I realized im not going to be here forever.

But I guess it’s the whole thought of that we don’t know what comes after you die…. Is there a heaven and hell? Do we get reincarnated or is it just… black? I guess I’m afraid that I might miss out on a lot of things… one day 24 and suddenly 87 and dying form old age or shit like that… but I can’t help but feel like it’s just around the next corner my old age. I know it’s not like that but I’m afraid I might end up saying “where did my life go?” and I’m afraid what will happen after death… the whole thought of not having my BF, friends and family at my side is horrifying and I often have a hard time sleeping… I get a scared, my stomach hurts and I start to tremble at the thought of that suddenly it’s all… black… there might not be more to it. Like sleeping but never waking up, you know?

But I try not to let me get bothered by it by looking at my BF, friends and family and be happy for that there’s still MANY years (if everything goes as It should) and that when the time comes I’ll be ready to die and not afraid of it… And it also sort of comforts me to think of that I might be reunited with my entire family and BF (If we’re still together when we get old). It’s hard to look on the bright side of dead but it’s normal to get scared by the things we don’t know about. Like ghost, spirits, aliens and such. It is scary to realize your not a god and can live forever and death is a natural part of life, so the only thing I can do is enjoy what I have now and don’t think of what might happened later. Enjoy every day of your life and then take things as they come. I’m sorry for making such a grim post but I felt like I needed to lighten the burden of this problem to others that my BF. I know some of you might have the same feeling of being scared of the unknown but know this. If you live your life in fear you’re not living at all.

Death is natural part of the amazing and wonderful thing that is life. One human die another is born. Maybe sometime in the future we might be able to die when we want to do it, but up and until then live your life to the fullest, it’s first when your old and dying you realize how important it is not to take this gift for granted.

2011-03-18T17:43:00.002+01:00

30 days of anime, day 6

Day 6 - Most annoying Anime character
- Hmm. I'll have to say naru narusegawa from Love Hina. Yes Naru, the female main character who's such a "joy". Why does she annoy me? Well her way of being. Every mistake Keitaro does seems to be on purpos in Naru's world, so she puches him everytime somthing happens that he is not in control of, and to be honost I never found it cute or funny when Naru does it... just annoying and very cruel. Haha.